A qustion in my mind

Dr.SHAIKHA · 31 أغسطس 2005، 14:51

Hello every1 I hope you are all fine and well,
I just have a qustion in my mind and I'd like to know your opinions
it is about studying abroad i.e away from home, well actually it is more than a qustion!
let us get started:
if you are studying abroad,do you feel that you have some kind of regrets?and if you are at home do you feel it'd have been better if you were away for some time? ~!@q

Do you think it matters wether you are a boy or agirl? ~!@qthat's all

Mrs.Unfaithful · 4 سبتمبر 2005، 10:14

Hmmm

You seem to be abroad yourself

what do YOU think???s

I did study abroad, and it was the most enriching experienec in my life, with all its goods and bads,,,, i learned so much from it.... and i am sure that it definately made me a better person
acadamically of course.. as well as socially and intellectually

I dont think it matters if you're a boy or a girl... it all depends on how you choose to make this experice worth while for you.. and how you set your limits and goals while abroad

Dr.SHAIKHA · 4 سبتمبر 2005، 13:57

thanx for your words mrs Unfaithful
yes Im abroad and I was just woundering how others think about being away
I do agree with what you said but things do change it is probably harder now than before(I mean being away)any way,,,
many thanx to you:)

عشوووقة · 10 سبتمبر 2005، 22:00

i think its really hard 4 some ppl ( like me ) bcoz i cant live for too long away from the ppl i love its so nerve-cracking ,,,
but some other ppl r fine with it

and u definetly learn alot from it coz its a whole new thing

thanx

Dr.SHAIKHA · 11 سبتمبر 2005، 0:13

Thanx for you opinion عشوقه:-)

عروبة · 11 سبتمبر 2005، 10:11

Well, going abroad is an interesting experience but it is hard at the same time.
there you face conflicts in many aspects to your country , so you have to take the good ones and leave

things tha are against your belief
GOOOD Luck

Dr.SHAIKHA · 11 سبتمبر 2005، 23:41

thanx عروبه
for your opinion and thanx for wishing me luck:)

NewWay · 12 سبتمبر 2005، 15:30

Yeh Dr.
If I were you, I'd chosen to go out and be abroad...
Being abroad as one of our friends hve mentioned here, doesn't just give you the knowledge or the education you were seeking for, but it opens your heart and mind to so many beautiful things..
You would be able to see things when you come home again, see things with a different eye.

You just have to be a little more carefull out there..
Not everything you see there can be taken and not everthing can be seen as bad too..

مسقطاويه · 12 سبتمبر 2005، 15:51

i dont know i didint try it yet but
from now i wanna stay home with my family and friends thx

Dr.SHAIKHA · 13 سبتمبر 2005، 12:55

NewWay كتب:

Yeh Dr.
If I were you, I'd chosen to go out and be abroad...
Being abroad as one of our friends hve mentioned here, doesn't just give you the knowledge or the education you were seeking for, but it opens your heart and mind to so many beautiful things..
You would be able to see things when you come home again, see things with a different eye.

You just have to be a little more carefull out there..
Not everything you see there can be taken and not everthing can be seen as bad too..

Thanx for what you wrote

it is really encouraging

and I do agree you do see things with a different eye!

Dr.SHAIKHA · 13 سبتمبر 2005، 12:59

thanx for your opinion

مسقطاويه كتب:

i dont know i didint try it yet but
from now i wanna stay home with my family and friends thx

NewWay · 13 سبتمبر 2005، 15:29

Dr.SHAIKHA كتب:

Thanx for what you wrote it is really encouraging and I do agree you do see things with a different eye!

Thanks for the comment Doc.

اميرة الحزن · 13 سبتمبر 2005، 17:12

hellooo

from my side, i think it is good to study a broad u will learn many things
that will be benift for u.
i hope to go abroad to study english language coz it is my major.i

Good Luck

هداية القلوب · 24 سبتمبر 2005، 10:43

Hiiiii it is realy good subject to talk about
in my opinion study abroad is some thing is good not only for knowledge but it change your personality and every thing u face it u will learn from it
maby u will face many problems but it is good to know how to face difficult in your way by your self
it is realy good experience u must learn as much as u can

and it not depend in boy or girls it depend in the way they deal , learn, live that mean in how they are

Dr.SHAIKHA · 24 سبتمبر 2005، 22:53

هداية القلوب كتب:

Hiiiii it is realy good subject to talk about
in my opinion study abroad is some thing is good not only for knowledge but it change your personality and every thing u face it u will learn from it
maby u will face many problems but it is good to know how to face difficult in your way by your self
it is realy good experience u must learn as much as u can

and it not depend in boy or girls it depend in the way they deal , learn, live that mean in how they are

THANX FOR UR OPINION:)

ورد الأمل · 29 سبتمبر 2005، 21:59

Hi sister,
Studying abroad seems to be one of the most important issues in our lives. thus we have to discuss it more seriously.
Foe me, i think it doesn't matter with the gender, everybody can tolerate the experience of being far away from his/her family, friends & the social network in which he used to be & interact if he has the desire to live up to a specified goal with certain standards. All in all, i think it's really interesting & enriching experience because a person will start discovering the other side of the self. A person will start awaking his traits & motivations up to solve a problem, handle a work, or getting responsible for his own safety in the dangerouse situations & conditions..

Thank u for such a topic

Dr.SHAIKHA · 1 أكتوبر 2005، 13:58

because a person will start discovering the other side of the self.
that's totally true!thanx for what you wrote:)

صادق الاحساس · 4 أكتوبر 2005، 17:32

Hi

honestlly

i would call those poeple who study abroad

great poeple

espicially girls

all the best for those great poeple who are really doing their best and suffering from homesick and other diffcults in the life

all this what are they doing is for their familly and for oman and for themselvs

Bint Ilnas · 25 أكتوبر 2005، 4:24

I have lived abroad for almost ma whole life....its gr8 u get to try out stuff u don't have at home.....u get to c stuff u haven't seen b4 u get to meet ppl from all over the world.......it ain't hard at all it is rather intresting but i must say u do feel homesick after a while.......n no it doesn't matta if ur a boy or gurl muslim or not.....ppl accept u no matta wat.....or at least thatz wat happened to me......u learn a lot both educatinaly n socially so don't worry that ur abroad there ain't nothin bad in that......have fun in wat eva ur doin n don't regret wat u did just regret wat u didn't do

ahss · 25 أكتوبر 2005، 12:03

i think studing at outside is better

firest of all when you are outside you are in contact whith people who speake english all the time. that means you have to speak just english!! and that could improve your speaking skill at least.

also when you are outside you have alot of free time, so you dont have to visit your relatives and yo dont have to spend alot of time plaing with your friends or helping your family
so you can spend more time learning.

this is for the person who want realy to learn? i mean the person who goes out side shod have strong determination. otherwise i think it is better to study in the country where we live.

endurance · 26 أكتوبر 2005، 23:31

Hi Dr. Shiekha

nice subject u brought up here

studying or living abroad for some time is a great part of life a person would do if lucky to get a chance.

as it is at home where bad and good excist, it is the same abroud.. however, at home u have ur family and beloved around where as abroad u don't.. hence u find urself having to deal with it all on ur own.. but doesnt that empower ur personality, intelectual ability and ur tactics at dealing with whatever pops up in ur life as u progress?!

I believe that's what Mrs. Unfaithfl means with the development she meant she touched in herself.. and that's what i I see in myself too as I studied abroud for sometime.

Me? i got to know and be closer to Allah more, I knew what my beloved really ment to me and how preciouse are all parties to each other, I learned things that developed my personality better... and that on it's one is a huge subject to talk about... socially I knew how important to know how to make friends and diffrintiate between the good and bad, my statement below says what I mean.

and a lot more that I really wish to talk about

take this as an advise or as u wish dear sister... what u might be feeling could be home sickness... it is natural and happens to a lot of ppl, but ur ambitions should be strong as the benifit u will gain eventfully will benifit others too.

what u r doing right now is a sacrifice u should feel proud of doing... studies are hard whatever and whereever they are... put ur goal upfront and work your way... Allah be with you inshallah

male or female, I see this is nothing to do with it.. nonetheless, no matter what ur gender is the trust of Allah on u and ur family's and ur self as well should always be in ur concern

sorry for taking long

good luck:)

صادق الاحساس · 27 أكتوبر 2005، 17:10

Hi

bint ilnas

i agree with you about what you said about homesick,imagen that i feel so much home sick from the third week

and i like so much what you said in the last two lines as well:)

Dr.SHAIKHA · 1 نوفمبر 2005، 1:27

thank you every body for your opinions special thanx to

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and many thanks to:

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Dr.SHAIKHA · 1 نوفمبر 2005، 1:30

صادق الاحساس كتب:

Hi

honestlly

i would call those poeple who study abroad

great poeple

espicially girls

all the best for those great poeple who are really doing their best and suffering from homesick and other diffcults in the life

all this what are they doing is for their familly and for oman and for themselvs

:)thanx for the complements

صادق الاحساس · 2 نوفمبر 2005، 15:12

Hi~!@q

to be honest with you its a fact and i didnt mean to give anyone a compliment here

any way thanks for following

eid mubarak to you dear sister shikhah

Dr.SHAIKHA · 3 نوفمبر 2005، 14:17

صادق الاحساس كتب:

Hi~!@q

to be honest with you its a fact and i didnt mean to give anyone a compliment here

any way thanks for following

eid mubarak to you dear sister shikhah

thank you
but i didnt mean a complement for myself$$t i ment for all the people who are abroad and that include me!!!!!!!!!!!!so brother im thanking you on behalf of every1
that's all$$t
سبحان الله

eid mubarak to you too and thanx

Bint Ilnas · 9 نوفمبر 2005، 8:41

thanx......ya doctorah

Bint Ilnas · 9 نوفمبر 2005، 8:43

Thanx صادق الاحساس

صادق الاحساس · 24 نوفمبر 2005، 17:18

Bint Ilnas

hi and you are welcome dear sweet sister:)

take care

صحراء البلاد · 27 نوفمبر 2005، 14:12

well....... it is agrat chance to study abroad as my friends mantioned first of all take careful take careful coz many things nowdays changs espicially in our aspects........ and as they said see the world in differnt eyes not erverythnigs the westren people doing is right or wrong ......
just be selfconfedent to make you moer selfesteam and goooooooooooooooooooooodluck

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