can u forgave someone hurt u؟؟

عمانيه وكلي فخر · 22 ديسمبر 2005، 16:21

hi my brothers and sisters
today i want to share with u this topice and i hpe everyone will give his opinion
about it
if anyone hurt u deeply
i mean he or she has kiled your feelings
he destroy your life your dreams
withe out any reason

can u forgave that one??

أشجان عمان · 23 ديسمبر 2005، 19:07

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Dear Sister,

Thank you very much for presenting this issue, well as I know hurting other feelings is really one of the rudest action ever someone can commit. In my view/opinion I think to give a chance to that one would be a nice turn from you, other I can't face that cruel action with the same action by my side. In general what I wanted to say, his almighty has given to his slaves chances for the forgiveness, how we don't?

Best Wishes,

AshjanOman

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عمانيه وكلي فخر · 24 ديسمبر 2005، 17:39

أشجان عمان كتب:

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Dear Sister,

Thank you very much for presenting this issue, well as I know hurting other feelings is really one of the rudest action ever someone can commit. In my view/opinion I think to give a chance to that one would be a nice turn from you, other I can't face that cruel action with the same action by my side. In general what I wanted to say, his almighty has given to his slaves chances for the forgiveness, how we don't?

Best Wishes,

AshjanOman

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thanx alot for your comment

but where the others ??:(

ahmed975 · 25 ديسمبر 2005، 0:16

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:) MY SISTER THANKS FOR THIS NICE TOPIC WHICH IS VERY MISERABLE SITUATION THAT MOST OF US MIGHT MEET , BROADLY SPEAKING I WOULD COMMENT THAT EVERY BODY SHOULD ASSESSED THE OCCASION ION MEANING THAT TO FORCE THE OTHER TO VALUATE YOUR FEELING AND YUOR FORGIVENESS
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oMaNi_AsLi · 25 ديسمبر 2005، 12:56

عمانيه وكلي فخر كتب:

hi my brothers and sisters
today i want to share with u this topice and i hpe everyone will give his opinion
about it
if anyone hurt u deeply
i mean he or she has kiled your feelings
he destroy your life your dreams
withe out any reason

can u forgave that one??

am sure u could forgive someone for almost anything..
but i am not sure about forgetting about it..time is healer after all

,Depends on if he is a woman or a man
Men are more likely to forgive compared to women.#e
Hurting deeply, killing feeling and destroying dreams is forgivable in time

Mrs.Unfaithful · 26 ديسمبر 2005، 8:34

Thanks
عمانيه وكلي فخر
For bringing up this topic

I think it depends on the value of this person in your life, if he or she was special and loved to you , then the wounds would stay forever.... even if you later forgave this person, I don’t think you can totally forget, and you’re relationship will definitely not be the same as before
Especially if this kind of act was not expected, it hurts the most

As for me, I always expect the worst of people, and not fully trust anyone in the world, that’s why I think it made it easier for me to forget... but never forgive

الاديبة · 27 ديسمبر 2005، 1:52

Hiiiiiii

may be i forgave that one but i do not think i can forget him

Mona Al-Maskari · 18 يناير 2006، 18:42

If that person felt of his mistake and came to appologise then why should I refuse it? Defently I will forgive because our God alwys forgive our faults when we regret and come back to him. If the Great Allah forgives then why we do not?!o

كازو · 20 فبراير 2006، 13:32

Just for one time forgivness is suitable if this person repeat the same behaviour toward you may be she or he has the purpose to hurt you and injerd you. Or some times they want to expoliet your personality.The best thing is neglecting.

وهج الشرق · 17 أبريل 2006، 19:08

i will cry yes
but i will never ever made him cry
and
i will try to not make him feels the same feeling that i cross it
on other han i will tell him that u hurt my feeling don't do it again

oMaNi_AsLi · 17 أبريل 2006، 19:43

وهج الشرق كتب:

i will cry yes
but i will never ever made him cry
and
i will try to not make him feels the same feeling that i cross it
on other han i will tell him that u hurt my feeling don't do it again

wow, what a reply? this person sure r
,lucky to have someone like u
?what if she did smth that can not be forgiven
?as what omania said , what if she killed ur feelings

$$e reGARds..oMaNi_AsLi

مريوة · 21 أبريل 2006، 11:44

thank u for this beautiful topic
i will forgive her if i love her but if i dont love her i will not forgave her 4 now but maybe in the fueature i will forgive

وهج الشرق · 22 أبريل 2006، 10:41

oMaNi_AsLi كتب:

wow, what a reply? this person sure r
,lucky to have someone like u
?what if she did smth that can not be forgiven
?as what omania said , what if she killed ur feelings

$$e reGARds..oMaNi_AsLi

Thank u brother

if it is for the second times
i will just leaf him without any eplanation of his whys
just to made him suffer throwout his life

FX.82MS · 22 أبريل 2006، 11:05

well this is nice thing

u focus in

sometimes love is above everything even the lovers kill each other ..butmy own commonher is thathave u asked ur self that (especiallyis u you are in love with the person he or she broke u)_may be u brake his or her emaotion with out uknow that and he or she die because hedident expect that never from u

this is happened to much in the relationships and its easy disappear with selly reason
hope all the bestfor all#h

Pinocchio · 22 أبريل 2006، 23:42

Hiii

Its very nice subject to discuss although discussing it may open some deep wounds for some ppl who have been hurt b4.

For me being hurt by someone and the issue of forgetting or forgiving is entire depend on who is that person and most important is what type of bond that connecting us

For example

if its between me and a close friend and he done something that really bad 4 me simply I will ignore him tell some time so he relies how much his words or action is wrong so he think twice b4 doing such thing again otherwise if he don’t feel that he have done something wrong which have harm me and just take it as normal thing then he is not a friend and no need 4 me to think twice 4 him simply being in pain cose of him is not worth it

In the other hand if this problem is between a husband and wife and one of them have done something that hurt the other one I believe that we have to forgive and we have to forget also. forgiving without forgetting will make life difficult for u and for ur mate and for ur children , dont harden ur heart by ur hands.Its very important to forget cose that’s the meaning of sacrifice and love so talk about it more with him or with her

Same thing if its between brothers and sisters cose .. they r irreplaceable

Try to remember we don’t live in ideal world such things happens making mistakes is human nature

Wish u all peace and love

$$9 Pinocchio$$9

oMaNi_AsLi · 23 أبريل 2006، 9:59

Pinocchio , am happy to c u around
:) replying n giving ur opinon
,i liked what u wrote wallah
but , where is omania to comment in our replies

reGARds..$$e oMaNi_AsLi

Pinocchio · 23 أبريل 2006، 12:35

Hiii
oMaNi_AsLi

[B]am happy to c u around replying n giving ur opinon[/B]

:)

Thx for ur support my friend

I wanted to say my opinion because of ur advice 4 me earlier to join discussion room and I was hoping u can see it also

[B]i liked what u wrote wallah

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;)

Thx

$$9 Pinocchio$$9

Mrs.Unfaithful · 23 أبريل 2006، 14:12

Thank you Pinocchio

For sharing your opinion, and for being among us

:)

I have a little comment on your reply

I totally agree with ,

Sometimes, friends hurt us on purpose... or they will do something that they know will make us upset, because they KNOW that we will eventually forgive them and forget.. they basically take advantage of our care and love

I had this happen to me before, and now I learned that taking all the hurt just not to loose the person is the worst pain in the world... and in fact it will weaken the value of your friendship

In situation like that, its best to not forgive and to NEVER forget the hurt that they caused us

Thanks again for your reply… it was a bit inspirational..

J

Pinocchio · 23 أبريل 2006، 15:50

Thaxxxxx

Mrs.Unfaithful

For ur comment on my reply

U know I liked many aspects u have mentioned in ur comments especially this one

taking all the hurt just not to lose the person is the worst pain in the world... and in fact it will weaken the value of your friendship

I totally agree with u in this "really what's the value of friendship to that person if he or she can hurt u and never care about it "

But wait ppl

Why r we just talking about those who hurt us only
Remembering and reading about them here make our mood feel bad and we are in the net to relax
On the other hands we have to mention those ppl who can left u from ur pain that is cosed by other person and make ur life better and make u forget ur pain
$$e Those are the real friends $$e

"friend in need is friend indeed"

Cheer up friends
|a

$$9 Pinocchio$$9

وهج الشرق · 24 أبريل 2006، 13:09

Pinocchio كتب:

Hiii

Its very nice subject to discuss although discussing it may open some deep wounds for some ppl who have been hurt b4.

For me being hurt by someone and the issue of forgetting or forgiving is entire depend on who is that person and most important is what type of bond that connecting us

For example

if its between me and a close friend and he done something that really bad 4 me simply I will ignore him tell some time so he relies how much his words or action is wrong so he think twice b4 doing such thing again otherwise if he don’t feel that he have done something wrong which have harm me and just take it as normal thing then he is not a friend and no need 4 me to think twice 4 him simply being in pain cose of him is not worth it

In the other hand if this problem is between a husband and wife and one of them have done something that hurt the other one I believe that we have to forgive and we have to forget also. forgiving without forgetting will make life difficult for u and for ur mate and for ur children , dont harden ur heart by ur hands.Its very important to forget cose that’s the meaning of sacrifice and love so talk about it more with him or with her

Same thing if its between brothers and sisters cose .. they r irreplaceable

Try to remember we don’t live in ideal world such things happens making mistakes is human nature

Wish u all peace and love

$$9 Pinocchio$$9

Wow what a nice reply$$e

I’m with you that the issue of forgiven depend on the importance of the person to you

عمانيه وكلي فخر · 29 أبريل 2006، 12:24

thank u all of u my sisters and brothers for ur comments
personaly i cannot forget who has destroied me but my be i can forgave but never i will not be with that person as before.

RaNaMoOn · 1 مايو 2006، 0:46

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I dont know why i keep things locked up in my heart

when some one hurt me , i tend to forgive but i can never forget what they did to me,

like
wound that stops bleeding for a while then tends to bleed again

i may get over what they did for a while but once they hurt me again the scar tends to freshen up..

hope that i can forgive and forget too

thans sis for the topic

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honesty · 22 مايو 2006، 18:55

sure you should forgive because this is what our beloved prophet asked us to do

شاعر جروح · 27 يونيو 2006، 3:46

hi everybody .. how r u ?
i hope ur okay .
first i didn't see anyone's replay coz i wanna get my mine up. getting a pure decision is always the truth. $$e

i always have the tendency to forgive people who have hurt me but sometimes i cannot coz they might not deserve it or coz i really cannot recover and live my life again.
luckily, in the moment i've been hurt i feel the resentment burns a fire up in my heart & mine and i just start thinking about the wound.
but i alawys believe that God created forgiveness to give us the chance to feel the pain & then, enjoying ourselves while forgiving those people who we love much.

i don't forget the pain i have been through but i usually forgive , just coz i got a white heart @s a Gift From God $$e

.

i'm gonna back 2 ur replays guys

, c u soon

Bless u too
take care

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