Maybe you feel that you do not have the ability or opportunity to control ur life and ur future. These days, it seems everybody is a "victim". And in some circles, it's even popular to be "anti-achievement." .U will hear people tell U what u should do and not to do and sometimes ur socity will force and limite ur freedom in controling ur life according to it's rules.or certain standard of living. Only u can decide whteher such attitudes are right for u. It's important to remeber, though, that every aspect of life operates on Cause And Effect_ for every Effect or result or outcome, there is a Cause. "Victim" thinking or "it's no use" thinking becomes a Cause in and of itself. What kind of Effect do u think it has to have?|a
"WHO_____ME? CONTROL MY FUTURE!HOW?
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Good topic super nova. I used to think in the same way. However it didn't really matter to me anyway since I always accepted what I had to face. I never had a long-term ambition and accepted where the life stream leads me.
But that shouldn't be the case....
There are many situations where you get to choose. You need first to set your mind on something and to have an ambition that you'll struggle to get to. That way, you can choose from the beginning what to take and what not to take. In other words, you get to choose the CAUSE in order to change the EFFECT. The only thing that would be stopping you from changing your life is you!!!$$g
Example: If you'd like to become a Doctor, first you choose the subjects that will allow you to become one and get good marks too. And I'm sure I don't have to tell you that you need to work hard to get it.
Everything has its price.
I do agree that you sometimes you have no choice but to accept what you have. But that would be only a test in life. Now that you know its a test, how are you going to act towards it. Are you gonna let it win over you, or are you going to struggle and win at the end...
That's my opinion anyway. Hope it helps...
