Feeling of loser

السنعه · 11 مارس 2007، 15:51

It is the first time for me writing a topic in English forum.
My problem that I feel all the time I am a loser no matter the things that I have achieved.
I graduated from SQU, I have my work, my own car, my wonderful life, and I have done many greet things in my life, but still I have loser feeling.

Moreover, many people criticise me in my working place (because of my poor English language) which make that feeling grow bigger and bigger.

I tried to be rational and think positively, but it doesn’t help.

Omani-forever · 11 مارس 2007، 18:21

No dear don't think like that keep going on in your language and don't be shy and if you feel your language is not okea take some courses in English and maybe that help you to be perfect in English or at least you will be better than now ....... and dont listen to the people who try to criticise you because they are hinder you and they put inside you something bad....that's called Hopeless and as you know this concept is not for us it's for people who are not muslims........ and that's all, this is my advice to you dear and I hope to see you in agood health and see you next time take care

لبابه · 12 مارس 2007، 17:56

hi dear
as i see you've done very good with your life and if you do like every thing you achieved then i cant find where does this feeling come from
i just have few advices to you
first of all donot compare your self with others
second, feel greatful for what you have coz some people are desperatly looking for such alife.
finally, remember that no one is perfect we all do mistakes and we all need to work on certain things to improve, what really matter is how
hard we are working on these things

so love your self you are a great unique person anyway

wish you all the best

بنـ الكويت ـت · 12 مارس 2007، 23:21

what you wrote now is a good english and you should'nt feel as a loser

read and speak more english

and dont give any attention or concentrate to those who makes fun of you

dont listen to your self saying that you are a loser

just believe in your self

good luck

oMaNi_AsLi · 13 مارس 2007، 0:12

helloz
h r u sis

.......
i will not say more than what they said
they covered everything

just few things to add
ur problem is that u dont have a problem
comon,, u have a good life, how u can
feel as a loser
:)
u should trust ur self , be optimistic . dnt compare ur
self with others, ignore those who laugh on
ur good english
by the way,,, ur english is perfect ,
even better than mine
.......

so , keep smiling , [B]life is not deserve[/B]
:)

السنعه · 13 مارس 2007، 9:57

Omani-forever, لبابه , بنت الكويت
Thank you all for your advices, really I am trying to improve my language since I realize my problem with language
Yes I admit that I am always comparing my self with others just to get that push to be better and work hard to be perfect As most of you said, and I am ensuring that, nobody is perfect
Omani- asli
I am trying to be optimistic in my thinking, but really I do not know where the mistake is
Maybe because nobody appreciates what I am doing or maybe I get tired from my responsibilities and I need day off
I know you will say, you don’t need appreciation to study hard or to work or even to drive your car alone from your village to Muscat every weekend, but still I need appreciation to get self satisfaction
Or maybe because I worked hard to be a staff in a specific place and when I have got the job there was a big chock that the environment not the same as I was thinking

Oh, I am talking too much; it is wonderful feeling
that there is somebody listening
thank you for your support

Light · 15 مارس 2007، 10:25

I think you have a feeling of depression
Maybe getting married will help you and bring something new in your life

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