change ur life by changing ur reaction

    • change ur life by changing ur reaction

      Discover the 90/10 Principle


      It will change your life (at least the way you react to
      situations)

      What is this principle?10%of life is made up of what happens to you.9 0%of life isdecided by how you react
      What does this mean?We really have no control over 10%of what happens to us.
      We cannot stop the car from breaking down.T he plane will be late arriving,which
      throws our whole schedule off.A driver may cut us off in traffic.
      We have n o control over this 10%.The other 90%is diffe rent.You determine the
      other 90%.


      How?……….By your reaction.
      You cannot control a red light.but you can control your reaction.Don't let people fool you;YOU can control how you react


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    • Let's use an example.

      You are eating breakfast with your family.Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee
      onto your business shirt.You have no control over what just happened.
      What happens next will be determined by how you react.
      You curse.
      You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over.She breaks down in
      tears.After scolding her,you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup
      too close to the edge of the table.A short verbal battle fo llows.You storm upstairs
      and change your shirt.Back downstairs,you find your daughter has b een too bu sy
      crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school.She misses the bus.
      Your spouse must leave immediately for work.You rush t o the car a nd drive your
      daughter to school.Because you are late,you drive 40 miles an hour i n a 30 mph
      speed limit.
      After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away,you arrive at school.Your
      daughter runs into the building witho ut saying goodbye.After arriving at the office 20
      minutes late,you find you forgot yo ur briefcase.Your day has started terrible.As it
      continues,it seems to get worse and worse.You look forward to coming home.
      When you arrive home,you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouseand daughter.

      Why?….Because of how you reacted in the morning.
      Why did you have a bad day?
      A)Did the coffee cause it?
      B)Did your daughter cause it?
      C)Did the policeman cause it?
      D)Did you cause it?
      The answer is “D".

      You had no control over what happened with the coffee.How you reacted in tho se 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.


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    • Here is what could have and should have happened.
      Coffee splashes over you.Your daughter is ab out to cry.You gently say,"Its ok honey,you just need to be more careful ne xt time".Grabbing a to wel you rush
      upstairs.After grabbing a new shirt and your bri efcase,you come back down in time
      to look thro ugh the window and see your child getting on the bus.She turns and
      waves.You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff.Your boss
      comments on how good the day you are having.
      Notice the difference?
      Two different scenarios.Both started the same.Both ended different.
      Why?
      Because of how you REACTED.
      You really d o not have any control over 10%of what happ ens.The other 90%wa s
      determined by your reaction.
      Here are s ome wa ys to apply th e 90/10 principle.If someone sa ys somethi ng
      negative about you,don't be a spon ge.Let the attack roll off like water on glass.You
      don't have to let the negative comment affect you!
      React properly and it wil l not ruin yo ur day.A wrong reaction could result in losing a
      friend,being fired,getting stressed out etc.
      How do you react if someone cuts you off in traf fic?Do you lose your temper?Pound
      on the steering wheel?A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off)Do you
      curse?Does your blood pressure skyrocket?Do you try and bump them?
      WHO CARES if you a rrive ten se conds later at work?Why let the cars ruin your
      drive?
      Remember the 90/10 principle,and do not worry about it.
      You are told you lost your job.
      Why lose sleep and get irritated?It will work out.Use your worrying en ergy and time
      into finding another job.
      The plane is late;it is g oing to man gle your schedule for the day.Wh y take outpour
      frustration on the flight attendant?She has no control over what is going on.
      Use your time to study,get to kno w the other passenger.Why get stressed out?It
      will just make things worse.
      Now you know the 90-10 principle.Apply it and you will be amazed at the results.
      You will lose nothing if you try it.The 90-10 principle is incredible.Very few know and
      apply this principle.
      The result?
      Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress,trial s,pr oblems and
      heartache.We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.
      It CAN change your life!!!
      Enjoy….


      Author:Stephen Covey
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