Girls Are Like Apples on Trees

    • Girls Are Like Apples on Trees

      Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree.



      Boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they're afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground, that aren't as good, but easy.



      So the apples at the top think that there is something wrong with them, when in reality, they are amazing.


      That is why we just have to be a little patient and the right boy, the one who takes a chance to find the good, right apple, will come someday...or may have come already.....




      Send this to all the girls who you know are at the top of the tree

      so i sent this to u beacuse ur in the top and ur the girl and the amazing apple

    • الرسالة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة:الوسيم

      so do u agree with me that girls are like apples?




      Well my dear friend, i have to say that it actually took me a great deal of time to think about your post, in addition of going through it several times$$t. At first, i found great difficulity trying to classify it and trying to actually properly understand it. This was mainly because it had certain hidden implications. These i was sure that you weren't aware of or let us didn't mean

      Anyway, reading through it several times made me see a good broad general idea. Other than that, am sorry to say, that i actually can't see how a comparrison can be held between girls and apples!!! I mean do you really think such a thing can be possible! I don't know this for sure, but the way i see it, some girls may actually find this quite offensive! Given the circumstances i wouldn't actully blame them. So, this makes your post a discussion material. For that after hearing from other members a proper judgement can be made

      Therefore, i believe its better to transfer this post to the discussion room and wait to hear from other members. Wishing that everyone would end up with a better understanding of this matter. I really hope that you dont mind me doing this? With best wishes, |eMy regards

    • I couldn't reply soon when I read at the first time because I am still confused about it. Actually when you said
      " Boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they're afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground, that aren't as good, but easy"

      I was really surprised to read this sentence because I am convinced it is not truth..Well I thought it might be the opposite that these boys will work hard to get the apples in the top because they deserve to have them..

      So sorry for saying that but I am against you in this statement..Well it is my own opinion and I don't know how the rest think about it..
      There is something I would like to add and I don't know if you heard about it before this time..Sometimes usually woman asked me when I was just a kid about the number of apples and bananas do I have in my family., At first, iwas really surprised to hear that but I know later that they called girls by apples and boys by bananas but don't ask me why coz I really don't know why? Boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they're afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground, that aren't as good, but easy.

    • Hi all $$e

      I think I understand what alwaseem trying to get to when he says:


      Boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they're afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground, that aren't as good, but easy"

      I think he mean with this that for fun and entertainment its easy for them to reach to the rotten apples coz they are more easy than the good ones who are in the top of the tree. In the other hand if they are thinking in honest relation of course they will do their best to reach to the good ones even if they fall or get hurt :eek:

      Other thing brother I really don’t agree with u when u say:


      So the apples at the top think that there is something wrong with them, when in reality, they are amazing.

      In my view I don’t think that they think in the way u have mention|y

      They know that if they are in the top every one will do their best to reach to them even girls :D

      Any way this is my opinion $

      See u all $$e

    • First of all I would like to thank all of u
      The master,Miss spoon, Miss bomb and قسوة الايام

      My topic is clear like the sun at midday
      You just found difficulty to classify or understand it Because it is a discussion topic in art form and yeah I confess it hides something between lines. I am going to explain my opinion and my topic.

      * Why did I choose apples as a symbol of girls:
      Because apples are sweet and have a nice looking and red. When people want to talk about cheeks or girls they make similar to apples. And this is the answer of the wondering of Miss Spoon why girls are like apples.

      · Most of you are against me in saying that:
      [ Boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they're afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground, that aren't as good, but easy].

      Yeah most guys are looking for easy girls for fun and entertainment As Miss bomb said. but I can say that’s right too even in honest relationships , even when guys looking for a girl to get married. Let give u some examples of that and some situations:
      Most guys are afraid of relation with girls better than them for example he has a bachelor degree and she has a master degree. Or if she is richer than him.
      That’s why there are many girls have high degree are not married.
      Also the guy thinks that it is difficult to control the girl if her degree is higher than his degree. So he prefers to get married of a girl less than him.
      They are afraid of trying and afraid of getting hurt or afraid of the girl who is on the top


      Those days most guys are lazy and not responsible so they don’t have the courage to coupled with a girl better than him so they couple with an easy girl to control her or to be like the ring in their fingers :) i hope that i could explain it clearly and welcome if u have any comment ;


    • Hi am back :D

      Brother I want to ask u a question $

      When u say ((girls in the top)) did u mean with that girls
      who has high degree and if they are rich or poor?? :confused:

      Any way its your own opinion but I think the way they behave and holding their religion or principle is the important thing in girls and boys too $

      Thanks for your explanation but I really don’t agree with your last one $$t

      See u all
      $$e

    • NoNoNoNo

      Miss bomb don’t understand me wrong.
      High degree and money are not the important things in choosing girls or guys. They are examples how can girls be better than guys and why guys are afraid from coupled with girls. There r many basics things in choosing girls or boys or in choosing the partner. This topic is not talking about that and does not discuss those basics.

      In my opinion I don’t care 2 much about the face or the money or the degree by other words I can say I don’t care about the subordinate things.

      I care 2 much about the soul of the girl and the moral constitutions. It is easy to change the outer cover but it is difficult to change the soul.

      Finally I want to summarize what I said in few words:
      [COLOR=orangered[B[COLOR=orangered]]](The moral constitutions must be the basic of choosing the partner      [/B]).[/COLOR]

      Thank u very much

      Welcome if u have any discussion about that. [/COLOR]

    • hiiiiiiiiiiii
      good subject to discus brother
      but u said the best apple in the top of the tree i dont agree with u..... imagine yourself that you are standing in a very long feild if apples trees and you are hungry ....so you said u will climp one of this trees to get a good apple so you take along time to reach the top and it was difficult for u till u get ther although in your way to the top u see many apples which is in good looking and
      acceptible but u put in your mind one u hint in the top one in good shape and you said im sure after i get this one i will satisfy so you get it and come down from the tree you set and try to eat it ...........but imagine after you put your tooth try to attake it and satify your desire you forget to clean it from the dast so you try again to eat it and in this time you eat it until you reach the core but there you see afew worms but you continue to eat it because u take along time to get it and you are hungry ....................
      finally you finish your meal but after afew seconds you fell your stomach hurt u that u cant stand the pain so you which at that time u take one which is small and ripe and this one doesnt take u along time to reach it because its near to u ....................................but believe me human nature is to reach the difficult if it is couse your life       :P

    • I d idn't thought that u mean by the top apples by the girls who have a hige level of education$$6
      When i first think about it i think about the girls who have ideal priciples which we usually look to them according to their behaviours and principles a s my sister miss bomb mentioned up..

      Actually i felt sorry when you expalin the missing line for us$$6 because what is the fault of the girl if she is so embitious and wants to serve her society by her noble embitions to reach the high level of education..

      Why u men think like that:eek::eek::eek:? Shame on you if you really think like that

      You should respect this kind of girls not think that they are your foes

      So now i amm gonna to ask men and boys, Do all of you think the same?


      So i hope that all of you will participate again in this topic

      because it is really an important one

      And i hope from our advisor The master to stick this topic

      See u all

    • Thank u Miss Tournedos Daughter for this nice story and presentation. Really, it is interesting and it comprises many meanings and things such as the apples on the tree are not the best and if we worked hard to get something and spent long time and money to get it, we must take it even it is not good or cause diseases or problems in our life .

      Sorrrrry Sorrrrry Sorrrry

      I don’t agree with u and sorry to say ur absolutely wrong. I will prove that ur wrong.

      As we all know that apple trees are farmed and grown in cold states. In those cold places it is difficult to see the sun. Human and plants need the rays of the sun to grow and this sun gives apples the power, bloom, freshness, beauty and health.

      Do u agree with me in that or not ????!!!!!
      So which apples can get more of sunrays: the apples on the top of the tree or the apples that is close to the ground??
      Of course the apples that are on the top of the tree are the best because they get more of this sunrays and we can say they see the sun from the sunrise until the sunset.
      Sister now answer me, which one has more probability of getting worms, rottenness and dust: the apples on the top or on the ground ??!!!!!
      So the apples on the top are more delicious and they deserve the long way and time and hard work.

      Note: apples = girls

      Also u said we must eat what we got because we got them from the top and we worked hard to reach the top. I say, if we choose and pick our partners very well then we will have a comfortable life. If we discovered that this person is not the best or our life changed to the worst, then we are not forced to live with her. The God legalizes the divorcement, but He hates it. Divorcement is the last solution.
      Life is experiments and tests and we don’t eat or take something we don’t like because we spent much money in it or worked hard to get.
      Let me give u some examples: if u bought clothes then u discovered these clothes are not in ur size or format. Would u wear them because u spent money in them? Or u bought food then u found it was disgusting would u eat it?? I am sure u would throw them away and u wont care or think about the money which u paid for them

    • hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
      Thank u for your presentation or you lecture
      I think you want to fight .......you have a lot of information about apples= girls this is your formula … but for me if I bought clothe then I fell I don’t like it any more and infotunatlay this happen to me a lot I continue to wear it although I choose it by myself so because I choose it by myself I force myself to wear it ….I swear that not everything in the top is excellent like performs some times there is perfume you bay it by one Rial or three Rial and its smell better than perfumes bay it by more than 20 Rial …. Sorry I have to go know unfortunately but don’t think I want to ran away after two days you will find my answer am going out of the town
      #h

    • Dear Miss Spoon $$e

      I don’t think that all men thing in the same unlogical way as not all your hand finger the same $$t

      Brother at first u say that       ((Most guys are afraid of relation with girls better than them for example he has a bachelor degree and she has a master degree. Or if she is richer than him))


      So this is what u mean with girls in the top $

      I am with Miss spoon to stick the topic #d

    • الرسالة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة:turnedos daughter

      hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
      Thank u for your presentation or you lecture
      I think you want to fight .......you have a lot of information about apples= girls this is your formula … but for me if I bought clothe then I fell I don’t like it any more and infotunatlay this happen to me a lot I continue to wear it although I choose it by myself so because I choose it by myself I force myself to wear it ….I swear that not everything in the top is excellent like performs some times there is perfume you bay it by one Rial or three Rial and its smell better than perfumes bay it by more than 20 Rial …. Sorry I have to go know unfortunately but don’t think I want to ran away after two days you will find my answer am going out of the town
      #h


      [B]

      Interesting sis #i#i

      And I will wait until the fight #d#e

      I like it like that :eek:

    • Miss Tournedos Daughter , I don’t want to fight especially with girls’ lol. :P x
      We are not fighting here. we are brothers and sisters. We are discussing a topic or a case. |e x
      Maybe I am wrong in my opinions and thoughts or maybe ur wrong. Let us say, “We are here looking for the truth”.x

      Ur a good girl $$e, u don’t throw what u buy even u don’t like or not ur size. If I buy some thing expensive then I didn’t like it I will give it to my younger brother if he likes it.#e x

      Choosing Clothes and perfumes depends on the taste of the person. The perfume is an Expensive because it contains many expensive ingredients and it is manufactured in a famous market. Don’t look to the perfume from one side and its smell

      Guys don’t look to girls from one side. They don’t care only about her look or her degree and education or her money
      Maybe the looking of the girl is not excellent but it is good enough, but she has many pretty and bright sides

      I am waiting u my sister not to fight. I am not ur enemy. we can be friends$$9 $ x
      don’t bring sharp tools with u from ur village
      I know it is the weekend and I think u r going to visit ur family outside Muscat . I hope u return back safe       $$f

    • First of all i don’t agree with u in sticking the topic. My topic is not ready to be stuck. I will tell u when it is ready. Sorry guys. Plz don’t stick it now

      Girls, u understood me wrong in the definition of the best girl or the girl on the top. I just gave u some examples how the girl can be better than the guy and I gave some reasons why the guy is afraid from coupled with girl. As I told u before there are many basics or principles in choosing the partner
      I said: ‘we must not care about the subordinate things
      I care too much about the soul of the girl and the moral constitutions
      Let us define the meaning of the best girl
      In my eyes the best girl or the girl who I wish to coupled with
      · Believe in the ideal principles and honest
      · Beautiful (prevents me from looking to another girl).
      · Clever and has high education at least Bachelor degree (easy to communicate with her and she understands the life and knows what her husband want)

      Let me ask u girls a question: what kind of guys that u can feel passion about??!$$e x

      Miss Bomb don’t be happy so much w are not going to fight. This is not a battlefield don’t use ur Bomb and ur destruction weapons. You are included in my black list and the most wanted in the world. :eek: x

    • Come on brother don’t change the divert of the topic

      Our question is not what kind of partner we want but what do u mean by apples in the top of the tree

      Yes u already give us your opinion but that is not what u mean it in the beginning of ur topic

      Many guys think in this stupid way but why
      ???

    • I am strongly with my sister bomb:D
      Don't try to go away from our main point

      Why do men think in this way of being afraid to engage to a woman who have a high grad than them?

      So i hope that all of you try to focus in this point:eek:

      Because we are really interested to know the facts

      And by the way brother if we asked them to stick the topic you should not disagree coz we are the ones who want it to be stick and u don't have to worry about that:eek:

      see u all
      and waiting ur replys

    • No , girls u asked me what do u mean by the best ? Is the girl who has high education or degree or the girl who is rich?x
      You Said that it s shame on us if we think like that and if we ignore the ideal principle and religious
      That’s what I understood and maybe I understood it wrong because of my bad English. I apologize,,,,,,,, sorrrrrrry


      I am not afraid to engage or coupled with a girl who has an education higher than mine or she has a master or doctor degree. As u know girls use their heart more than their minds to judge. So if she has high education that means she used her mind a lot and she thinks very well
      I prefer that she has high degree because I think if she has high education that means she knows the life better than the girl who has high school degree. I think she could understand me and understand what her husband wants. She would have a mind greater than other girls who haven’t high education
      Don’t forget, if she has high degree that means she has a good job and a good salary that’s an advantage. |a x

      But we can say in general that the girl is still girl or female even she has high education or degree. She still has same psychology, same mind, same heart, and same way in thinking. So the high degree doesn’t make the best girl

      So why guys are afraid from marriage the girl who has high level of education??!!!! |y x

      I am not talking about my self. I am talking about guys who are afraid
      They think that girls are proud and haughty. Maybe they think that they could not understand each other
      Maybe those girls are old. Most girls forget their self and they don’t care or think about marriage until they get master degree. That means they are older than 30 or 35 years old. So guys are afraid from them and they don’t want to marry an old woman

      Also many guys are not ambitions and not responsible. That’s why they afraid from coupling with girls better than them

    • Salaam aalikum
      The topic is really motivattting to participate.
      However, there is a point we agree with; we are here to disscuss and not to fight and going along with useless arguments.
      Yes, some men dont like thier wife to be better than them in any side ofthe life. Also, some women dont like it too, so its a common habbit or principle.
      What i c is all this depends on individual personalitites and thoughts.Some men like to sit down and let thier wives work!!1 and some dont allow at all or byanyreason thier wives to work.

      Why didnt we say, why the women is not going to buy ration for her family....or why the men is not,...why both not!!!!. All depends on individuals.

      If we slow down little bit and ask our selves, what is my wife to me.....is she some1 i should challange and looking to win always or she is some one who i share my life with and whatever is on her effecting me either positive or negative.

      This is my opinion..and as always am late

    • wow....what a topic :)
      apples ...girls...boys....passions ..hmmmmmmm i wonder what would be next :)
      well i think we r brave enough to answer ur question Mr.Alwaseem
      i think the idea is not how much money u have or in what digree u have as much as the idea is the amount of ethics and islamic rudiments we have this is for both girl and boy i guess we both need respect and i said it first cause it comes before anything else and by it we can buld alot of good things in our relation the other thig is we both need love and last i think to know how to forgive cause we all get lisstep in sometimes and if we dont forgive eachother then the end is close
      so respect,love,and forgive :)

    • Obviously, I’ve been away from this topic for a while, that I missed all these developments. I am sorry! To be honest, I’ve been away from the whole section for a while now and as such not performing my duties as I should. Please forgive me everyone

      Anyway, it seems to me that the majority of members are voting for the topic to be stuck. So be it. Now, since this is a discussion, it is better if we all get down to one point, and give it it’s fare share of discussion before moving on to another

      I would also like to thank our dear brother, Alwaseem, for continuing to explain things and keeping the discussion going. Also, I would like to thank all of you, for participating in this discussion

      I can see that there are a number of points that the girls want us to explain and define. However, most of the points are scattered all over the topic and are not well defined. So, I would really be grateful, if one of you would, just gather these points and define them clearly, so that we can discuss them accordingly

      Am sure that, Alwaseem, is more than willing to keep the discussion going and will be pleased to answer any of your questions. This same thing goes for me, and I would say the rest of us

    • The Master Thank u very much for sticking the topic. I appreciate that. I am glade to see my topic stuck. That means it is good and people like it and it deserves that. But It is nice when u see ur topic going up and down. It is a challenge to keep it in the top not because it is stuck but because people live in it and react with it. I feel most people don’t like to open or read a stuck topic and I am one of them. That’s why I was afraid of sticking it. I am a democratic and most of u vote to be stuck. I don’t have the veto right lol :D so be it as the master said


      Also I want to thank the master for the sweet things that he said. Really we were wondering where is our master. I hope ur ok and every things are all right with u|e x
      You are the master so why don’t organize the discussion and gather the points and define them clearly. We would be grateful if u did that.#d x

    • Mr. Evaporator: I agree with u, men are not challenge their wives. The husband and the wife must form or must be One Soul or Spirit in two bodies and sharing one heart. They are one. So no one is looking forward to defeat himself or win .U talked about the relation between men and women after the marriage. But most of us are single and looking $$e x


      So the question is why some guys are afraid from coupling or marriage with girls better than them!!!! |y x
      Why they are looking for the easy one or the apples on the ground and leave the best or the apples
      on the top!!!! |y x

    • Miss. ارض الغبيراء
      respect, love, forgive and the happy life] all come if there is a true love. u reminded me in an Arabic song called (the true love) M7ammad Foad . The true love doesn’t die. It teaches us how to forgive, how to forget it is always keep us thinking in the good days and the future

      So if u choose ur partner very well and marry him with satisfaction and conviction then u will find the true love. The love who changes ur life, heart and mind. Love is a small word but it has a wide and deep meaning. It has a strong effect in human, emotion, feeling and thoughts

      The question is for u Miss and all guys and girls: how could we find the one who deserves this love and our hearts |y x

      Equivalence is very important thing in choosing our partner. This equivalence be in every sides; education side, sociological side, economic side………….etc