Really, this is a nice story that we need to read to the end. Remember, that 80 % of the result we got is related to the attitude that we take towered encountered situation .
Be Happy
CHINESE STORY
A long time ago in China, a girl named Li-Li got married & Went to live with
her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time
Li-Li found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all.
Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered byMany of
her mother-in-law' s habits. In addition, she criticized Li-LiConstantly
Days passed and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law Never stopped
arguing and fighting. But what made the situation even Worse was that,
According to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bowTo her
mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and Unhappiness in the
house was causing Li-Li's poor husband great distress.
Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law' s bad temper And
dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about It.
Be Happy
CHINESE STORY
A long time ago in China, a girl named Li-Li got married & Went to live with
her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time
Li-Li found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all.
Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered byMany of
her mother-in-law' s habits. In addition, she criticized Li-LiConstantly
Days passed and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law Never stopped
arguing and fighting. But what made the situation even Worse was that,
According to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bowTo her
mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and Unhappiness in the
house was causing Li-Li's poor husband great distress.
Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law' s bad temper And
dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about It.
Li-Li went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs.
She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison So
that she could solve the problem once and for all. Mr. Huang thought For a
while ,and finally said, " Li-Li, I will help you solve your problem, But you
must listen to me and obey what I tell you ."
Li-Li said, " Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me toDo."
Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a fewMinutes with a package of herbs.
He told Li-Li, " You can't use a quick-actingPoison to
get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people To become suspicious .
Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowlyBuild up
poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal andPut a little
of these herbs in her serving. Now, in order to make sure That
She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison So
that she could solve the problem once and for all. Mr. Huang thought For a
while ,and finally said, " Li-Li, I will help you solve your problem, But you
must listen to me and obey what I tell you ."
Li-Li said, " Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me toDo."
Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a fewMinutes with a package of herbs.
He told Li-Li, " You can't use a quick-actingPoison to
get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people To become suspicious .
Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowlyBuild up
poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal andPut a little
of these herbs in her serving. Now, in order to make sure That
nobody suspect you when she dies.
You must be very careful to act very friendly towards her.
Don't argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her likeA queen ."
Li-Li was so happy. She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home toStart her plot
of murdering her mother-in-law. Weeks went by and months Went by, and every
other day, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her
Mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Huang had said about Avoiding
suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her Mother-in-law, and
treated her like her own mother.
After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had
practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost
never got mad or upset.
She hadn't had an argument with her mother-in-law in sixMonths because she
now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with. The
Mother-in-law' s attitude toward Li-Li changed, and she began to love
Li-Li Like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that
Li-Li was the Best daughter-in- law one could ever find. Li-Li and her
mother-in-law Were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter.
You must be very careful to act very friendly towards her.
Don't argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her likeA queen ."
Li-Li was so happy. She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home toStart her plot
of murdering her mother-in-law. Weeks went by and months Went by, and every
other day, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her
Mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Huang had said about Avoiding
suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her Mother-in-law, and
treated her like her own mother.
After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had
practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost
never got mad or upset.
She hadn't had an argument with her mother-in-law in sixMonths because she
now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with. The
Mother-in-law' s attitude toward Li-Li changed, and she began to love
Li-Li Like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that
Li-Li was the Best daughter-in- law one could ever find. Li-Li and her
mother-in-law Were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter.
Li-Li's husband was very happy to see what was happening.
One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his helpAgain.
She said, " Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison from Killing
my mother-in-law! She's changed into such a nice woman, and I Love her like
my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her."
Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. " Li-Li, there'sNothing to worry
about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gaveYou were vitamins to
improve her health. The only poison was in your Mind and your attitude
toward her, but that has been all washed away by the Love which you gave to her."
HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly howThey will treat you?
There is a wise Chinese saying:
"The person who loves Others will also be loved in return."
God might be trying to work in another person's life through you
She said, " Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison from Killing
my mother-in-law! She's changed into such a nice woman, and I Love her like
my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her."
Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. " Li-Li, there'sNothing to worry
about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gaveYou were vitamins to
improve her health. The only poison was in your Mind and your attitude
toward her, but that has been all washed away by the Love which you gave to her."
HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly howThey will treat you?
There is a wise Chinese saying:
"The person who loves Others will also be loved in return."
God might be trying to work in another person's life through you
