Did you find the love of your life, and it just so happens that you are young and will be the first to get married from all of your friends? Well you never know when true love will find you. But when it does, age doesn't matter much, you don't want to miss out on the opportunity of tying the knot with your soul mate.
Of course, being in this position may be a little tough or just somewhat weird. Your friends are out with guys, girlfriends, or their clan, hanging out at the bars and clubs to meet someone new. And at the same time, you are all wrapped up in wedding favors, decorations, and taste tests for cakes.
Conversations are different between you and your close pals. They are talking about this new girl or new relationship, with butterflies in their stomach and the excitement of getting a call or just meeting up with her for coffee. That's the way it is in the beginning of a brand new relationship. On the other hand, you may very well have discussed or be discussing how many kids you want, where you want to live, and possibly even some adult like conversations about finances and investments.
As your wedding date quickly approaches (and it always sneaks up on you pretty quickly) you may very well become more anxious and excited. And as this happens, it may get harder and harder to refrain from constantly talking about it. But you should try not to, at least to some extent. Of course you don't have to go around completely quiet about it, never mentioning a word about your big event. But put some effort into making sure you are not totally self centered; make sure that not all you can talk about is your wedding day. Be sensitive and considerate to your friends, and they will appreciate it and do the same in return for you.
It does not have to be a big deal that your lives have changed; for example, maybe your friends spend their free time scoping out cute girls at the mall and you spend your spare time searching for that perfect wedding cake topper online or for the style of wedding suit that you want to walk down the aisle in. Just remember, they are still your friends, you still have most of the same things in common, likes and dislikes, and an approaching wedding doesn't mean you can't hang out together or go out and catch a flick you'd all enjoy.
It is also healthy for you to be able to take your mind off of all the details (and there always are so many) at least for certain periods of time. Wedding planning can be stressful and sometimes overwhelming. So doing unrelated activities and having unconnected conversations that don't deal with wedding colors and themes for example, can really be of benefit to you and your partner as well. So go out and have some non-wedding fun with your friends, just like old times!
Overall I am against the idea of getting married young, but that is only my point of view, that's why I am encouraging other people in my school to get married as fast as possible so their life can settle down. As I mentioned before don’t be afraid at all just follow your real love and never give up
Of course, being in this position may be a little tough or just somewhat weird. Your friends are out with guys, girlfriends, or their clan, hanging out at the bars and clubs to meet someone new. And at the same time, you are all wrapped up in wedding favors, decorations, and taste tests for cakes.
Conversations are different between you and your close pals. They are talking about this new girl or new relationship, with butterflies in their stomach and the excitement of getting a call or just meeting up with her for coffee. That's the way it is in the beginning of a brand new relationship. On the other hand, you may very well have discussed or be discussing how many kids you want, where you want to live, and possibly even some adult like conversations about finances and investments.
As your wedding date quickly approaches (and it always sneaks up on you pretty quickly) you may very well become more anxious and excited. And as this happens, it may get harder and harder to refrain from constantly talking about it. But you should try not to, at least to some extent. Of course you don't have to go around completely quiet about it, never mentioning a word about your big event. But put some effort into making sure you are not totally self centered; make sure that not all you can talk about is your wedding day. Be sensitive and considerate to your friends, and they will appreciate it and do the same in return for you.
It does not have to be a big deal that your lives have changed; for example, maybe your friends spend their free time scoping out cute girls at the mall and you spend your spare time searching for that perfect wedding cake topper online or for the style of wedding suit that you want to walk down the aisle in. Just remember, they are still your friends, you still have most of the same things in common, likes and dislikes, and an approaching wedding doesn't mean you can't hang out together or go out and catch a flick you'd all enjoy.
It is also healthy for you to be able to take your mind off of all the details (and there always are so many) at least for certain periods of time. Wedding planning can be stressful and sometimes overwhelming. So doing unrelated activities and having unconnected conversations that don't deal with wedding colors and themes for example, can really be of benefit to you and your partner as well. So go out and have some non-wedding fun with your friends, just like old times!
Overall I am against the idea of getting married young, but that is only my point of view, that's why I am encouraging other people in my school to get married as fast as possible so their life can settle down. As I mentioned before don’t be afraid at all just follow your real love and never give up
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