why somebody angry

أبو نور · 14 سبتمبر 2003، 15:40

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
somebody who have daughter he become angry when you
call him (aboo flanha) idont now why?
i met one person like this people and i call him aboo flanah his face change and he said brother i have now boy so please call me aboo flan . i become very surprise for that who give you the boy (allah) and who give you gair, agaeen (allah) so what the differint) between boy and gair)
so who is create thim? i think this pepole have (algahilyah) memorise . but,for me i have both and who call me abo noor i become happy becouse she is my daugter also who call me abo flahn i not become angry so, brothers (itghoo alaah) for your daugther
walalam alykom wrahmat allah wbrkato

sorry about my language;)

YSK_lol · 15 سبتمبر 2003، 20:12

Hi brother
Well cause some people belive that the boy will carry his name
but the girl will get married and his name will be Fade away
More to that, the some father would like people to know that he has a boy who will be Proud abou him
Thanx YSK

أبو نور · 17 سبتمبر 2003، 12:52

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
thank you brother YSK for your replay
but brother when the god give someboday just daughter is he become shy when every boday call him aboo flanha? also you are right when you said the boy carry father name its true but again when he dont have boy what we call him? i dont now but i think we must not become shy when anyboday say hello abo flanah

YSK_lol · 17 سبتمبر 2003، 13:56

Well man not most of the people do not like to be call by their daughter’s name. Most the educated people will never say any thing if you call them by their daughter’s names. Nevertheless why we need to call people by nickname? Just call them by their name and that’s it
Regards
YSK

عاصفة الساحة · 17 سبتمبر 2003، 14:06

I am with you Abu Nur
And i think that people shoulden't react in such away and they should also feel proud of their daughters :)

أبو نور · 18 سبتمبر 2003، 14:10

كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : YSK_lol
Well man not most of the people do not like to be call by their daughter’s name. Most the educated people will never say any thing if you call them by their daughter’s names. Nevertheless why we need to call people by nickname? Just call them by their name and that’s it
Regards
YSK

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
i think maybe you didnt read my subject verywell
because i wrote someboday not all pepole also you said
just call them by their name i think its not answer
thank u

Whisper · 18 سبتمبر 2003، 14:29

Interseting topic Abu Nur

However it is a fact that some men are really complex toward this point which i find it a silly character in them.. They should never react towards this problem in such away coz their daughters are their blood and honor and they have to feel proud of the..Coz sometimes we find the girls in some families are better than the boys
SO don't we need to respecrs girld rights and these men should forget all these silly stuffs about acrrying the name$$-e

YSK_lol · 18 سبتمبر 2003، 14:39

Brother
Tell somebody who you know him and who does not like any body to call him by using his daughter’s name to look around him and to see where the girls are they? Most of them a doctor, engineer, lawyer, even they reach a minister level. So there is no difference between them. Let me tell I have two daughters and one boy and to be honest, all of them are equal to me and some people call me by my daughter’s names and some of them by my son’s name. When they call me by my son’s name, say to them my first child is a daughter and call me by her name. So there is no shame on that, previously or in the past people feel indignity when they got girls cause that time there was no equals rights between girl & boy, but now all the same which is so great thank GOD for you justice. Regards….YSK

أبو نور · 18 سبتمبر 2003، 14:40

كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : عاصفة الساحة
I am with you Abu Nur
And i think that people shoulden't react in such away and they should also feel proud of their daughters :)

gzahak allah ghair
thank you very much your replay its very true
i hope this pepole chang thim idea

Whisper · 18 سبتمبر 2003، 14:53

كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : YSK_lol
Brother
Tell somebody who you know him and who does not like any body to call him by using his daughter’s name to look around him and to see where the girls are they? Most of them a doctor, engineer, lawyer, even they reach a minister level. So there is no difference between them. Let me tell I have two daughters and one boy and to be honest, all of them are equal to me and some people call me by my daughter’s names and some of them by my son’s name. When they call me by my son’s name, say to them my first child is a daughter and call me by her name. So there is no shame on that, previously or in the past people feel indignity when they got girls cause that time there was no equals rights between girl & boy, but now all the same which is so great thank GOD for you justice. Regards….YSK

$$j

I just can't say anything else
but welldone brother

أبو نور · 21 سبتمبر 2003، 15:02

كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : Whisper
[B]
Interseting topic Abu Nur

However it is a fact that some men are really complex toward this point which i find it a silly character in them.. They should never react towards this problem in such away coz their daughters are their blood and honor and they have to feel proud of the..Coz sometimes we find the girls in some families are better than the boys
SO don't we need to respecrs girld rights and these men should forget all these silly stuffs about acrrying the name$$-e
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thank you very much

هاجس الحب · 21 سبتمبر 2003، 22:32

Thanxs brother for ur topic
Yaa from my experenice I saw that a lot of people became angery when they call him aboo flana they thought that girl will not give him any benefit later.. she will go to her husband home .. but the boy will take his father name specially the first one ..
Boys and girls all the same . we have to thanks god for them . al7amdullah ..

أبو نور · 22 سبتمبر 2003، 15:36

كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : هاجس الحب
[B]Thanxs brother for ur topic
Yaa from my experenice I saw that a lot of people became angery when they call him aboo flana they thought that girl will not give him any benefit later.. she will go to her husband home .. but the boy will take his father name specially the first one ..
Boys and girls all the same . we have to thanks god for them . al7amdullah ..
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thank you hages alhaob for your words yes we should thanks god for them gzahak allah ghear

حصاه متقرشعه · 9 نوفمبر 2003، 9:57

thank you my dear for this
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boy or gire they created by allh.Those who become angry about that they not understand the islam very well they should know that many people do not have any one of them. If they call them aboo flanh or aboo flan they should say
استغفر الله وأتوب إليه
لا حولة ولا قوة إلا بالله
sorry for my grammer
:P

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