trust

عواطف · 28 سبتمبر 2003، 22:05

unfortunately
today we are living in society with no trust
and our society getting worse
we're here to discuss this Question

Can does exist a relationship without trust?

And friends feel free to answer

البارون · 1 أكتوبر 2003، 22:25

wt does trust mean
$$t

عواطف · 1 أكتوبر 2003، 22:53

كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : البارون

[B]
wt does trust mean
$$t [/B]

belife

البارون · 2 أكتوبر 2003، 21:56

i think

It is because of centralization, which leads to globalization

$$7

البارون · 2 أكتوبر 2003، 22:04

i think yes

do u trust all of your friends ?a
you chat and go togather but when you fall in truble they won't know you, so soon you degenerate them

for me al7am dolalah i have many friends but in this wide world i can choose three from them coz they know the meaning of real friendship

عواطف · 3 أكتوبر 2003، 4:56

كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : البارون
[B]

i think yes

do u trust all of your friends ?a
you chat and go togather but when you fall in truble they won't know you, so soon you degenerate them

for me al7am dolalah i have many friends but in this wide world i can choose three from them coz they know the meaning of real friendship
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al7dmallah
glad to hear ur answer

Smart Prince · 5 أكتوبر 2003، 22:50

Dear Awatif

What type of trust u meant??

The one between teh husband and wife??

or

the one between normal friends??

or

between a boy and his girlfriend??

or

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..

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Plzzzzzzzzzzzz specify!!!!

because each situation has different circumstances

BEST WISHES
SMART PRINCE

عواطف · 6 أكتوبر 2003، 0:29

the one between normal friends

can't wait to see yout reply

غانم · 6 أكتوبر 2003، 11:27

Thanks Miss Awatif

The Trust between normal friends

Well, it is complited situations, because it depends up on the the friends themselves. Friends can be good or bad, closer or far.

Here, is ur decision, if u think that ur friend is closer to u more than anyone else, then he or she is trusted person... and sometimes u may trust this person more than ur family, and u tell him or her all your problems and u feel that he/she is living ur problems and secrets with u.

On the other hand, this friend may have to faces or wearing a mask. Infront of u he/she is the honest and best friend, but behind u, he/she is totally different and may say all ur secrets. For that u must becarefull and know well what is happening arround u and remeber " becareful from ur enemy once and from ur friend 1000 times"

From My Experience

I had a very close friend, and I trusted him alot, but one day I supprised that he changed alot, and started to say something bad about me, which wasnt true. I didnt leave him, because we were friends for more than 7 years. What i did is requesting to talk to him when he is free. We met in a place and I started to talk and told him that u changed alot.......etc

Anyway, from that day he started to think and watch his steps, and I was supprised one day when I saw him infront my house to pologise about what happened from him. He asked me to visit him in UK. I went to visit him and during this visit he asked me a question I will never forget "Do u know why I invited u?? To open new page and return back as good friends". So from that day we ,ve been more than good friends

The Conclusion

Always study ur friend before u give him/her the blind trust

BEST WISHES
SMART PRINCE

Smart Prince · 6 أكتوبر 2003، 18:05

Sorry, there was a mistake, Ghanim should be Smart Prince, i dont know how Ghanim name is appeared, but the reply was written by me, Smart Prince

Good Luck

عواطف · 11 أكتوبر 2003، 18:34

dear Smart Prince
i totally agree with you
but its not easy

The Master · 17 أكتوبر 2003، 15:01

The trust between family and friends is hard to establish. You have to gain trust from your parents, siblings as well as your friends. Your family, siblings and your friends have to gain your trust as well. Trust does not have to just be about not telling secrets

Trust is not only hard to gain but it is hard to keep as well. Keeping trust is hard to do because one little mistake and trust that you had could be totally destroyed and never put back together

What seems to take place is that friendships evolve, people with similar interests and tastes, or in many cases merely people who originate from a familiar location, or environment, have between them, common things, shared likes and dislikes. With friendship, the common elements are the basis for the the friendship, but it is their differences that command and build the relationship that is truly a friendship. Friends over time come to respect each other, recognise the differences between them and appreciate those differences allowing each to be his, or her own person, be unique and accept those differences in each other. The next part of a developing friendship is once awareness of each other's preferences and differences there develops a level of trust between the two. We often refer to this trust as bonding, because the relationship develops from the respect but it is the trust each places in the other, that determines that this in fact is a friendship

عواطف · 18 أكتوبر 2003، 16:53

كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : The Master
[B]The trust between family and friends is hard to establish. You have to gain trust from your parents, siblings as well as your friends. Your family, siblings and your friends have to gain your trust as well. Trust does not have to just be about not telling secrets

Trust is not only hard to gain but it is hard to keep as well. Keeping trust is hard to do because one little mistake and trust that you had could be totally destroyed and never put back together

What seems to take place is that friendships evolve, people with similar interests and tastes, or in many cases merely people who originate from a familiar location, or environment, have between them, common things, shared likes and dislikes. With friendship, the common elements are the basis for the the friendship, but it is their differences that command and build the relationship that is truly a friendship. Friends over time come to respect each other, recognise the differences between them and appreciate those differences allowing each to be his, or her own person, be unique and accept those differences in each other. The next part of a developing friendship is once awareness of each other's preferences and differences there develops a level of trust between the two. We often refer to this trust as bonding, because the relationship develops from the respect but it is the trust each places in the other, that determines that this in fact is a friendship
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thanks dear
you've ponited for something very impotant

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