Distrust

    • Distrust

      Distrust

      Some times in our lives we like to trust some people, but we may trust them to blindness. That is may be dangerous thing. It is really hard to trust somebody while you are blind because that may conceals the right from the wrong.
      This blind trust may alternate to distrust because we may discover so late that we were wrong in many things. But the most important thing is when you keep in repeating the same mistake. We are blind because the truth has been blocked from our view and because we trust without taking considerations for what may happen later if we kept in our blindness.

      Distrust is the opposite word of trust that we adore this word and dream about it. We fancy that trust in what we believe may proceed to the end. Alas, not what we always think to have may be achieved to our desires..

      Distrust is just the beginning of a hopeless life that may end with catastrophe.

      So try to be careful to not be blind when you trust somebody.
      EID MUBARK TO ALL OF YOU
      SCREAM

    • Trust Again

      Dear Scream,
      Thanks for the topic, the good topic.
      Whatever you say, we are going to trust again and again, simply because we are humans.

      The problem lies in us, and Iam sorry to call it a problem, but, and no doubt the more we trust the more tender we are, and the more we try to prove that we are good.

      Probably others would say that the problem lies within the others we trust, I would not hesitate to agree.

      We trust in ALLAH, and we have never been disappointed. ALLAH is Kbeer, but trusting others is a very complex behaviour and ....and let us trust and hope for the better.


      10 derness

    • Trust is an important element in any social system. It links people together, giving them confidence in each other, in their relationships, and in their agreements. When trust is lacking, people will not believe what their opponents say; they will doubt their intent or motivation in any dispute resolution process, and they will fear that any promises their opponents make will be broken. For this reason, it can be very hard to start--or finish--a dispute resolution process when the level of distrust between the parties is high

      Like many other aspects of conflict, distrust tends to grow as conflicts escalate. It is heightened as communication gets cut off, and misunderstandings begin to occur. Efforts to persuade using intentional deception can also fuel distrust, as can manipulative or coercive strategies

      Ironically, however, being too trusting can also be a problem, So trust must be earned and built carefully in any successful dispute resolution process

    • thanx alot scream for this topic
      realy it was an interesting topic

      but

      u have to think before trust on somebody
      u have to know him

      is him deserve ur trust

      i would say that not all the people deserve it
      but only
      if u really fell in love with somebody u have to trust them even blind trust becuse at the end u all will be one heart in one body in one life in one world

      thanx again scream
      my regards
      |e |e

    • Re: Trust Again

      كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : Tenderness
      [B]Dear Scream,
      Thanks for the topic, the good topic.
      Whatever you say, we are going to trust again and again, simply because we are humans.

      The problem lies in us, and Iam sorry to call it a problem, but, and no doubt the more we trust the more tender we are, and the more we try to prove that we are good.

      Probably others would say that the problem lies within the others we trust, I would not hesitate to agree.

      We trust in ALLAH, and we have never been disappointed. ALLAH is Kbeer, but trusting others is a very complex behaviour and ....and let us trust and hope for the better.


      10 derness       [/B]



      The problem lies in us, and Iam sorry to call it a problem, but, and no doubt the more we trust the more tender we are, and the more we try to prove that we are good.

      Unfortunately, what you said brother is absolutely right. The problem lies in us because we sometimes we are over tender and kind that we may by our clear hearts believe and trust people.
      Our kindness may be against us if we try to have and carry it inside us most of the time..we may intend something good but others will misunderstand us..
      So, as you say brother the only trust that we can have is just in Allah because even sometimes the close people to your heart may betray you..
      Thanks a lot brother for your reply.

    • كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : The Master
      [B]Trust is an important element in any social system. It links people together, giving them confidence in each other, in their relationships, and in their agreements. When trust is lacking, people will not believe what their opponents say; they will doubt their intent or motivation in any dispute resolution process, and they will fear that any promises their opponents make will be broken. For this reason, it can be very hard to start--or finish--a dispute resolution process when the level of distrust between the parties is high

      Like many other aspects of conflict, distrust tends to grow as conflicts escalate. It is heightened as communication gets cut off, and misunderstandings begin to occur. Efforts to persuade using intentional deception can also fuel distrust, as can manipulative or coercive strategies

      Ironically, however, being too trusting can also be a problem, So trust must be earned and built carefully in any successful dispute resolution process
       [/B]



      Ironically, however, being too trusting can also be a problem, So trust must be earned and built carefully in any successful dispute resolution process

      You are absolutely right our moderator, and we have to be careful and try to learn from our mistakes..

      Thanks a lot for your reply in my topic

    • كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : البارون
      [B]
      i'm afraid to say that

      there is no trust these days

      if there is a one in your life try to give him a test to see if that person is deserve your trust or not
      #i


      [B]
      i'm really sorry for telling you this you may say
      that is not true
      you can try and waite for the results
      [/B] [/B]


      We can find trust baroon but we have to find it in the right person
      And as you said that we have to test the person we are going to trust him or her so we could not be disappointed or shocked if we discovered later that the person we have trusted never deserve any trust or admiration from us any more.

    • كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : بائع القلوب
      thanx alot scream for this topic
      realy it was an interesting topic

      but

      u have to think before trust on somebody
      u have to know him

      is him deserve ur trust

      i would say that not all the people deserve it
      but only
      if u really fell in love with somebody u have to trust them even blind trust becuse at the end u all will be one heart in one body in one life in one world

      thanx again scream
      my regards
      |e |e


      You remind me by the proverb "LOVE IS BLIND"
      But I am not talking about trust in love
      I am talking about trust in general when you try to trust everyone you know and that is so wrong.. Because it is difficult to trust everybody, but sometimes because of our good intent beside our big hearts we like to trust everyone we know..

      Thanks a lot heart sellers for your reply and I am sure that when you are in love you will trust the person you love to blindness..

    • Re: Scream

      كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : Tenderness
      Brother Scream,
      Let us all scream, for the sake of trust      .
      [B]DO NOT LET TRUST DOWN-DO NOT LET US DOWN

      Thank you brother and HAPPY EID

      10-derness       [/B]


      Don't worry dear brother

      may scream will never touch you deep and that all depends in you and who you trust