the love and the life

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      حكمه...

      4 ever

      تسلم..
      ننتظر حروفك معنا في الساحات الأدبيه...

      ......ينقل للساحة المناسبه....
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    • Sorry dear 4ever, did not see you coming in, next time come in straight here and do not let Red Rose bringing you in....lol #i


      Yes dear, love is essential and vital, and I will think again again next time I love.....but wait, love does happen just like that giving us no time at all to think, and you probably heard others saying ooooooooo, I have fallen in love.......no body thinks and decide to fall

      What do you think

      Any way, thank you dear wishing you all the best and Iam sure when you fall in love, you will fall standing

      well, I'm not talking about all kinds of love in case some one out there comes in and critisizes me, accusing me of being crossed-eyed or even blind

      I know I talked a lot.....never mind.....pardon me

      All the best dear, and please let us all see you again and again


      10derness

    • u must 2 think

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      to live u must to think how you can breath..to live you must to think how you can eat and drink..to live you have to love..with out love you can't live..
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      ليلنا يا ليل ..آآآآآآه يا جنوووون الليل $$e

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      and when u fall in love..u feel that u r in adream..or u feel u live onther world..where no one but u and ur love..then u forget all ur sad thing happen in ur life..and u'll think 4 ur future..and how u can make him happy..and how u can make ur life more beautiful
      thanx
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      ليلنا يا ليل ..آآآآآآه يا جنوووون الليل $$e

    • Dear
      حس الفكر
      Welcome again, and remember there will be no welcoming again, you are with your family here

      You said, when you are in love, you feel....FEEL

      Feel, you could be right, you could be wrong.....in both cases it is only a feeling.....some times feelings do not came true.....well they do sometimes

      Thank you dear


      Brother
      10derness

    • 4ever
      the love is avery important thing in the life so the people have to think first before love any one


      LET ME ASK YOU.WHY?WHY LOVE IS VERY IMPORTANT FROM YOUR POINT OF VIEW?

      Tenderness
      Yes dear, love is essential and vital, and I will think again again next time I love


      SAME QUESTION?WHY LOVE IS IMPORTANT?


      حس الفكر
      to live u must to think how you can breath..to live you must to think how you can eat and drink..to live you have to love..with out love you can't live..

      WHY?WHY?WHY WE CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT LOVE!
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      by the way, i liked your sentences.well structured and written nicely...well done


      I AM WONDERING WHY DO YOU ALL BELIVE IN THAT LOVE HAS THAT GREAT IMPORTANCE ?

    • Tenderness
      Yes dear, love is essential and vital, and I will think again again next time I love




      SAME QUESTION?WHY LOVE IS IMPORTANT


      Dear Mona
      ,read my post again I add


      .....
      but wait, love does happen just like that giving us no time at all to think, and you probably heard others saying ooooooooo, I have fallen in love.......no body thinks and decide to fall


      Back to your Q

      SAME QUESTION?WHY LOVE IS IMPORTANT?


      Any way, and I will try to be brief and concise as I always try to
      let me ask....WHY LOVE IS NOT IMPORTANT
      I know we talked only about man-woman love, and did not want to go further
      When a baby is born, the first thing he/she learns is to love his mother, the mother to be first thing is to love her baby

      LOVE IS IMPORTANT
      Thank you dear


      Brother
      10derness

    • كاتب الرسالة الأصلية Tenderness
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      Tenderness

      let me ask....WHY LOVE IS NOT IMPORTANT
      I know we talked only about man-woman love, and did not want to go further
      When a baby is born, the first thing he/she learns is to love his mother, the mother to be first thing is to love her baby


      Brother
      10derness
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      Who said that love is not important?|y

      Anyway, stating that love is important means that it is something that we can’t live without but this is not true!
      There are many people who live their lives peacefully and happily without falling in love! They are saving their loves in their hearts till they reach the proper time when they will be ready to give it to someone, in particular.

    • No body did dear Mona.....lol

      They are saving their loves in their hearts till they reach the proper time when they will be ready to give it to someone, in particular

      No, I do not agree with you here Mona, love is never given if we speak to mean give and take, love is taken from you in reverse state to mean give, others take your love to make you feel that you have given it where the truth was taken from you
      And this is when you fall, no body waits to fall, or decides to fall, he/she falls in a fraction of a second

      We are full of life and love.....but we are waiting for someone to take this love, not to give it to him/her
      Yes, we cannot live without love, but what love?, if we talk about man-woman love again
      وجعلنا بينكم مودة ورحمة صدق الله العظيم
      The people meant here are man and woman, ALMIGHTY ALLAH is talking about love, and put there between them, otherwise no life, as supposed to be

      This verse tells us that love after marriage is some thing sacred and can have different meanings


      Sorry Mona, I know iam boring sometimes.....lol but believe me if I want to finish it will take me 62 pages

      #i :D |e |y


      Brother
      10derness

    • كاتب الرسالة الأصلية Tenderness
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      No body did dear Mona.....lol

      They are saving their loves in their hearts till they reach the proper time when they will be ready to give it to someone, in particular

      No, I do not agree with you here Mona, love is never given if we speak to mean give and take, love is taken from you in reverse state to mean give, others take your love to make you feel that you have given it where the truth was taken from you
      And this is when you fall, no body waits to fall, or decides to fall, he/she falls in a fraction of a second

      We are full of life and love.....but we are waiting for someone to take this love, not to give it to him/her
      Yes, we cannot live without love, but what love?, if we talk about man-woman love again
      وجعلنا بينكم مودة ورحمة صدق الله العظيم
      The people meant here are man and woman, ALMIGHTY ALLAH is talking about love, and put there between them, otherwise no life, as supposed to be

      This verse tells us that love after marriage is some thing sacred and can have different meanings


      Sorry Mona, I know iam boring sometimes.....lol but believe me if I want to finish it will take me 62 pages

      #i :D |e |y


      Brother
      10derness
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      Tenderness

      I can understand from your reply that everyone here has to love whether he wanted to or not EXCEPT ME because I still don’t agree with you[MARQ=RIGHT]?[/MARQ]
      You, as a human being, can control your feelings. Your way of looking at people(& things) decides whether you are going to love that person or not.
      Let me give you an example:
      Imagine a man working on an environment which is full with ladies. If one of the ladies there gives that man a huge respect and care then the impact of that action on him will be one of the following:

      If that man is married (especially if he got married recently), then he will always look at her as a sister not more. Because his heart is occupied!

      But

      If that man was single (especially if he was searching for a woman to share him his life=planning to get married) then he will look at her as a lover and very quickly he will fall in love with her!

      Also, sometimes a man marry a woman without talking to her or even having a look at her but after marriage he loves her as if she is the only lady in the world that deserves his love and no one else deserves it.
      And sometimes it happens the other way round, he gets married but discover that he doesn’t like her and will never love her for his own reasons.

      So love can be given and you can decide to who you will give it!

      I know that my opinion is a little pit ambiguous but please try to understand it! If you need more clarification than let me know!

    • Thank you dear Mona

      When I'm impressed with some body, it does not mean I'm in love with him/her

      When I feel sorry for some body, it does not mean I'm in love with him/her

      When I sympathize with some body, it does not mean I'm in love with him/her

      When and when and when, and not every body understands or realizes this

      I will go back to the verse
      ومن آياته ان خلق لكم من انفسكم ازواجا لتسكنوا اليها وجعل بينكم مودة ورحمة صدق الله العظيم
      السكنى والمودة والرحمة مقرونة ببعضها هنا

      and cannot be created at no tiime and think I have got it all, simply because I want to love hahahaha back to the I want to

      It looks we are talking about man-woman love again

      Well, as i said it could take us ages to talk about this, and before I forget I need some clarification.........what do you mean saying


      I can understand from your reply that everyone here has to love whether he wanted to or not EXCEPT ME because I still don’t agree with you

      I never mentioned anything about you! As far as I recall I was talking in general and before that I did not see you disagree or even agree with me
      We are talking, all have some ideas, we might meet, we might part, we might agree, or disagree but never meant either way to make accusations and you or me or any body start putting words sin others mouth

      Thank you dear, and Iam really glad we have some one like you here, did you notice that I made a fun topic to be a hot discussion, and you made the discussion even hotter

      You are welcome dear sister


      Brother
      10derness

    • Back to you again 10derness

      ”It looks we are talking about man-woman love again”

      Yes we are! Your statements about the importance of love were general as I think but they should be applicable to all types of love or what do you think?


      ”Well, as i said it could take us ages to talk about this, and before I forget I need some clarification.........what do you mean saying


      I can understand from your reply that everyone here has to love whether he wanted to or not EXCEPT ME because I still don’t agree with you”

      I meant that I don’t believe in that love is very important as all of you mentioned. That’s why EVERY ONE of you HAS to love except me because I don’t believe in that statement
      #i
      (That’s what I meant)
      My brother, when you say that love is vital and there in no life without it then you MUST love and always be in love with someone other wise you will die
      $$-e!
      (Is it clear now?)



      ”Thank you dear, and Iam really glad we have some one like you here, did you notice that I made a fun topic to be a hot discussion, and you made the discussion even hotter”
      Thanks to you too.
      #d Hit me with your replies. I like you to be honest and frank.

      #i