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As we know all that
confidence always refers 2 belief in urself & ur abilities that U have. ..

[B]isn't it.. ..??
yes it is
or there is another referring . ..??[/B]~!@q~!@q
[B]By the way . ..

Actually, I don't know excatlly the reason 4 this issue . ..
some ppl they can[/B] talk english but not really good[B]but one of the reason may be they are stalking the feeling of scared
that may be they will speak in wrong speech or whatever or
the don't know [/B] what's right and what's wrong when they speak
[B]&
I think so that
[/B]they mind too much 4 speaking perfectly without any mistakes in front of others[B]
Indeed, it's not matter [/B][B]in the beginning[/B][B] 2 [/B]Speak English Fluently
[B]the main things is to give & get the idea
even if they don't hv that [/B] power of speech
Coz
I'm at the point where I realize that I must first believe in myself bef4 others will believe in me.

Don't U guys think like that.. ..??
certainly y right sis
wow its wonderful theorem

It has been said that English is an easy language 2 learn, but a difficult one 2 master
[B]I'm with that but not 2 make it huge issue till I loss my self confident
even I don't know so much in language I'll try 2 speak wht ever I know
&
I think that
[/B]The best way 2 gain self-confidence 4 speaking English is 2 look deeply inside of ourselves
&
believe that we hv the ability 2 overcome all obstacles & challenges that we face it in English language
&
I'm sure that step by step they will be on the top ..
[B]
Nice topic bro. ..
It z really touching our daily life in this time .. ..

Best of luck
[/B]:)

توب فاشين girl كتب:

first let's talk about the reason which make some people shamed to speak english..?

Many people are shamed to speak English because they are scared from making grammar mistakes or pronouncing some words so badly , as a result, they prevent to talk...:110103_ma

second do you think that is real problem and how much do you think the person who has this problem is experienced..?

Actually, the problems that I have mentioned above may appear in people who are not excited in learning new language which is English or other languages and that is maybe because they are lazy or they don't have a chance to learn. That's depend on the person's state.

third what are the way to solve this problem

The person who wants to improve his/ her English has to put thats in his/her mind first..Then he/she will find many ways by him/herself and I am sure about that..
Thats what I beleif actually...:)

قارئة الفنجان كتب:

Loss of self confidence when speaking English is because of
anxiety of making mistakes
You know it is the feeling when you had gladly say something
when chatting in English with someone
but you hold it inside because you are not sure you will get it right
In the most extreme cases you might even be avoiding communication
only not to experience embarrassment and humiliation
especially if you are speaking with native English speakers

That is when it gets really serious
because no matter how badly you fear making mistakes
you are not going to improve your spoken English simply
because you are not speaking enough

The first step to solve that issue is
you have to change your mindset regarding
how you perceive mistakes made during a conversation
and there are so many ways we can use it....

I'll come back later for that#j

Regards

English lecturer كتب:

Thanks for the wonderful topic that has been presented here

I am glad to see the discussion and I would really like to be part of it.
Talking about this topic first we have to determine which kind of personality we are dealing with because we have kind of people who are bold and some of them who are really bashful.
Then, the level of English that this person has is really important because psychologically, this person is going to be relived if he is sure that he or she can present the best of what he or she has.
Also, the audience that this person has in front of him. It is really completely different when you talk in English with your best friend and when you talk in English with your instructor.

Finally, I can add that confidence is not something we are born with, but actually it is something we acquire from our daily life. Pushing yourself to have a conversation with your doctor, for example, is one way to gain confidence. Being the first one who have his presentation in the class is one way to get this confidence. So, we can conclude that confidence is a matter of desire and time and each one of us can get it.

English lecturer كتب:

I agree with u bro.....and the kind of people that you have mentioned are those people who are bashful ....They have a problem in their personality

What I believe is that if you have a good language this might push you to be more confident

Thanks dear

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surly, when we make our think that we r better than others
and then, we can make our feeling more frustrated.

Keep it Up
#e