Who are the strange creaatures?

    • Who are the strange creaatures?

      Let me share this topic. It has been a long time since I wrote a topic or participate here.
      Anyway, I am writing this topic in response to the topic "Strange creatures" in FUN AND ARTS. You could say that accidentally while I was reading the topic I was also bothered by another issue and something starts to bewilder me wondering who is the strange creature, Women or Men?

      I find women stupid and weak. I may not have the right to say that because they are my gender and I have to defend them. I am not talking about all women but talking in general who women become weak and stupid in front of the men's sweet words. No matter how that woman is clever, she will become soon stupid when she lets her hear controls her mind!!!.
      Actually, I am talking about women who believe men when they say, "oh, I love you and I can't stop thinking about you, and so on". They just believe them without knowing their real personality and who are they in fact. They just believe them and do what they want them to do until they destroy their lives totally. So, shall I call them strange creatures or I shall call men strange creatures who some of them live a late teenager, and I am sure you know who I am talking about. Their age might be from 26 to 40 and they are still leaving like young men's foolishness in this life. You may find them marriage and with couple of children and in the other hands they are chasing and flattering girls like the hungry wolves. So, shall we call them strange creatures?!!
      Who is the strange creatures, can you decide?
      Or is the world that we live in is the strange thing in our lives
      ?!!

    • All strange creatures, all stranger dear Whisper, but all depends which way you look at it

      I do recommend reading this topic at the Fun page, c the difference which suggests that the woman is the wierd bit and not the man who you are making a devil and not just
      a strange creature

      I wonder if we need to die once we are 40, i wonder what to do when we are 40, I wonder what does 40 mean to us.......whereas some cultures call it and i mean the figure 40, it is when life starts.......I wonder
      I wonder, but like i said, all strange......we need to find somewhere to land, we need to find some time when we can realize that life is so easy, no matter who you are, no matter what gender you are......life is easy, we make it tough and hard

      woooooooooo, I would leave it for others to comment on the topic

      Tenderness

    • Tenderness كتب:

      All strange creatures, all stranger dear Whisper, but all depends which way you look at it

      I do recommend reading this topic at the Fun page, c the difference which suggests that the woman is the wierd bit and not the man who you are making a devil and not just
      a strange creature

      I wonder if we need to die once we are 40, i wonder what to do when we are 40, I wonder what does 40 mean to us.......whereas some cultures call it and i mean the figure 40, it is when life starts.......I wonder
      I wonder, but like i said, all strange......we need to find somewhere to land, we need to find some time when we can realize that life is so easy, no matter who you are, no matter what gender you are......life is easy, we make it tough and hard

      woooooooooo, I would leave it for others to comment on the topic

      Tenderness



      Thanks a lot Tenderness for your reply,
      Avtually the reason why i wrote this topic is the extreme anger insdie my soul, to know that some women are so foolish and stupied to fall in the trap of men who decieve them in the name of admiration and love..

      See you all
      And please forgive me all if i didn't reply soon..
      I may back after 1 month inshallah

      See you all

    • I don't think we can call men or women strange creatures, don't for those creatures are created by Allah first of all..

      why strange creatures? it's us who defined them as strange creatures and im sure we can also call them beautiful creatures or lazy creatures or dumb creatures, it's us who decide.. but as you said, you cannot generalise..

      I understand your anger, and I understand the frustration inside you.. but can anyone be as influential as those people like the famous scholars? That's the difference.. it's our job of course to advice the people if we see them do anything wrong, we get bonus rewards if we could make them stop doing it, but it's entirely up to them whether to stop it or remain doing it..

      dear sister, there are many reasons why a girl would easily fall for a man.. don't totally blame her.. and im not defending here either.. but im trying to look at it from different angles.. we can't say those who are tricked by men are stupid and foolish and call them strange creatures just because of that.. before we judge we need to look at reasons and causes.. then according to that we can judge, anyway who are we to judge others? There is Allah always to judge us..

      Remember, if you are strong and smart enough to uncover the face of play boys, not all girls are as smart and strong as you are.. take in account the individual differences..

      Now going to men, I wouldn't call them strange creatures either, people do mistakes.. again it's not us who should be judging people, again I understand your frustration but it's Allah who judges people according to their reasons, intentions.. etc. From the men, we have brothers, fathers, uncles, sons, grandsons,, they may do such mistakes, people go through ups and downs and different ages, different feelings... haven't you ever thought of wanting to break something or smash something, or hit someone?? we all do im sure of that.. i think just thinking about those things, would make us strange creatures, from there it's our choice to do it practically or keep it as thoughts..

      Subhan Allah, we saw people who do those things as strange creatures, others may look at us as strange creatures just because we thought that way.. and that's exactly what tenderness said, it depends on how you look at it..

      why do we call them strange creatures? why dont we instead help them if we can.. I know some of them who has no excuse, still i wouldnt call them strange creatures, instead i would say that they lost their way to the right path...

      Always look for the causes before jumping to the conclusions..

      Cheers