Life value

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      Dear Brother,, I am glad to read ur topic and regarding ur question, actually this is an importnant issue in each person's life.........but dear when the life is empty of any Goal that u put in front if ur eyes, the life will be meaningless and u will walk without any directions like a desert.........so dear u have to ask urself and 2 answer honestly : what is really my goal in this life ? is it money? is it good certificate? is it 2 get married and 2 build a nice house and buy a nice car ? or is it farther than these things ? all such these questions u have 2 ask ur self .......and i'll be honest with u : DO this stage without any stress from others>>>these r ur desires and Tawakl ala ALLAH.


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    • Thank you dear student
      You ended up asking, How can we get the benefits of our life

      I would like to thank our dear
      رهين المحبسين
      for his contribution in which he put down some questions he never answered himself

      Anyway, back to your question
      وما خلقت الانس والجن الا ليعبدون
      المال والبنون زينة الحياة الدنيا

      صدق الله العظيم

      After we carry out our religious duties and all worship, why not enjoy other things, children and money, why the money but to enjoy life

      One would say where is Zakat and Sadaka, I would answer saying, I said carry out my religious duties, and that is enjoyment too, to make others happy and get the benefits for that

      I would like to add onething, life has never had one goal, but goals, and they I mean the goals vary and change in every stage of our life

      Thank you student
      Thank you رهين المحبسين

      :)

    • Brother RAHIN, thanks a lot for ur participation. Well, u have clarified a lot of the doubts but still there r some existing. Such as, how do we choose the goals ? we have seen Mardona

      He has achieved his goals as a famous football player but his life ended with a tragic end.

      And history has shown us Htler and his life consequences .




      the doubt is how do we choose the goals?

      Thanks a lot my teacher 10derness, u r right there are several goals in our life and the question is how can we make sure that the goals are not conflicted?

    • Thank you dear student, and no teacher nothing $$-e , just call me friend or brother

      Well, what I said was that we have several goals but at different stages of our life, some come up may be once a certain goal is acheived

      To talk about having several goals at the same time and whether they conflict or not does really mean anything as long as they all end up to satisfy me and please me

      I do not know how one will put a goal forward and think of another that contradicts or conflicts with it. I guess we need to be logical in putting down goals and undestand and realize who we are and what can we do, make sure we know ourselves better and our capabilities better

      Well, you never know, sometimes cicumstances do the impossible, or what seemed to be impossible earlier

      :)


    • dear student, i would follow the same concept Tenderness mentioned in the verse of the Qura'an, but that is the purpose of life, and I guess we are talking about the value of life nad how we can benefit from it and make it valuable..

      Since we know the purpose of life, I guess we are supposed to do the things that relates to the purpose, when it comes to goals, we will certainly have to have long-term goals and short-term goals and this is exactly what Tenderness said, short-term goals will do on the short run and can be achieving a promotion from work, getting married or pass a year at school or uni. the long-term goals would be from seeking redha from Allah to better ourself until we are satisfied with it, which is not really going to happen but human beings are never satisfied

      To make our life valuable, we've gotta make the most of it by learning, seeking knowledge, passing it to others, teach the next generation our mistakes so that they avoid it, tell them about history and life..etc, It's doing something useful that will make a change to the world even if it a little one that one cannot notice. it goes back to the person feeling good about him/herself

      How can we benefit? well, since we are different individuals, everyone will have a special way of benefiting from life, we have different things to like, different priorities, different aims and goals, different perspectives and perceptions. Each will have his/her own way of living to benefir from life

      Thanks student, very interesting and sorry for being late in replying

      Cheers