✿ Debating about Housemaids ✿

    • ✿ Debating about Housemaids ✿


      Ladies and Gentlemen

      The English Forum Members


      Peace and Mercy of God Be Upon You

      It has been a while since a discussion popped into the forum, so I just thought we can add a topic for discussion. In shaa Allah, it makes the       :)forum a bit more dynamic.

      The topic is: Do You Agree to Use Housemaids at Home?



      Nowadays, the employment of foreign maid has increasing tremendously

      Housemaid became one of the most important things we rely on in our life. For more many of us really don't know the effect of house maid in children. Moreover as we can see there is sometimes a good effect of the house maid on the children and sometimes it can be a bad effect because of the different between
      the culture of the house maid and the family.


      What do you think all, those who do have housemaids and those who don't have ones?


      Let's us 2 discuss & share your Knowledge and Background about this Topic ...

      Waiting 4 U guys
      :)


      . . . لاشيء يتغير, الأحداث باردة وغرف القلب باردة و العالم كومة صقيع...,, . . .


    • Thanks for the great Topic sister

      I will honest and this is my personal view

      I don't agree for a lot of reasons

      first of all no one can raise the kids on a good manners but real mothers

      Second alot of men will start cheating because of that maid doing a lot sexual acts in front of the man of the house

      Third I won't trust any maid to make a food for me and my family because whenever they get mad they can do a lot of things like poisoning the family like what happened in sohar and muscat



      To me I will never agree on that no matter what because I have a family to care about


      Again Thank you very much for the great topic

      I really like it

      All the best to you sister

      Have a lovely evening
      لم أعد أهتم فمن رحل بإرادته يموت في أعماقنا بإرادته :thumbsup: :thumbup:

    • Great topic sadeem

      Actually it depends upon the life and situations. In general those
      who don’t have housemaid, they will be more relax mind than those who have. Sometimes people forced by
      situations to get housemaid, but we have to be careful and avoid leaving her alone in house
      or with children. According to my point of view , I don’t recommend housemaid to be
      involved in children care and cooking. Overall aspects those who have
      housemaid should have serious attention

      Regards

    • Hi

      Good topic

      In fact depends on the situation experienced by the family, now so many families need servant doing house work by maids

       ???Why

      Because most of Mothers are working and the required some body to take care of their children and houses

      In general we cannot trust on maids

      In actual the reliance on maids is negative and positive

      And mostly when families crating problems with maids the victim always is the children’s

      Best Regards

      .......

    • أمير الكلام كتب:


      Thanks for the great Topic sister


      The greater is ur passing ..
      &
      at the same time Thank u 4 ur bright interaction


      I will honest and this is my personal view
      Well Yeah sure..& that's what we want..I appreciate U in every single word..
      :)
      I don't agree for a lot of reasons

      first of all no one can raise the kids on a good manners but real mothers
       I think that It depends on how much the mothers are closely 2 their children..
      it z true, sometimes mothers may need them if they have alot of work & they might hv no time 4 her kinds
      &
      The maid can Breeding them in good way even better than mother herself ..
      What do u think of this kind of mothers then ...?

      on other side I really don't understand how mothers can throw their kids in the hands of some housemaids who are not educated and who only came to collect money!
      What do they expect! Most of problems that we see nowadays is because of lack of good education for the children.


      Second alot of men will start cheating because of that maid doing a lot sexual acts in front of the man of the house
      Well ..Depends on Men's ethics
      The main reason for weak faith nowadays and lack of Awareness
      Third I won't trust any maid to make a food for me and my family because whenever they get mad they can do a lot of things like poisoning the family like what happened in sohar and muscat
      . in some cases women need to have housemaids when she is weak and has alot of child,
      she can't take care of the whole house
      but she has to be careful and chose a good housemaid to help her. also she have to let the housemaid to clean and organize the house and other works like       Ironing ,
      Washing dishes & the like .. it is not jxt 4 cooking ..
      To me I will never agree on that no matter what because I have a family to care about


      Again Thank you very much for the great topic

      I really like it

      All the best to you sister

      Have a lovely evening


      How can we get housemaid's trust in order to be save and secure ?
      In your opinion , what are the advantages and disadvantages of having housemaid ?

      . . . لاشيء يتغير, الأحداث باردة وغرف القلب باردة و العالم كومة صقيع...,, . . .

    • best hope كتب:

      Great topic sadeem

      Actually it depends upon the life and situations. In general those
      who don’t have housemaid, they will be more relax mind than those who have. Sometimes people forced by
      situations to get housemaid, but we have to be careful and avoid leaving her alone in house
      or with children. According to my point of view , I don’t recommend housemaid to be
      involved in children care and cooking. Overall aspects those who have
      housemaid should have serious attention

      Regards


      I agree with U Best Hope ..
      But in ur point of view
      Is there any influences by maids..?

      is it right that By hving maids that means ::
      we have less privacy..
      +
      we become lazy..
      we depend on others..
      it has a negative effect on our health because we become inactive ..

      What do u think dear ..??
      . . . لاشيء يتغير, الأحداث باردة وغرف القلب باردة و العالم كومة صقيع...,, . . .

    • الغاضب بصمت كتب:

      Hi

      Good topic

      In fact depends on the situation experienced by the family, now so many families need servant doing house work by maids

       ???Why

      Because most of Mothers are working and the required some body to take care of their children and houses

      In general we cannot trust on maids

      In actual the reliance on maids is negative and positive

      And mostly when families crating problems with maids the victim always is the children’s

      Best Regards

      .......


      the needs of the housemaid is different from house 2 house many families need the housemaid
      but also many others have it 4 the luxury of life

       Do you prefer a housemaid who has experience||had worked before|| or a new one & Why >>??

      Best of Wishes
      . . . لاشيء يتغير, الأحداث باردة وغرف القلب باردة و العالم كومة صقيع...,, . . .

    • سديم الليل كتب:

      I agree with U Best Hope ..
      But in ur point of view
      Is there any influences by maids..?

      is it right that By hving maids that means ::
      we have less privacy..
      +
      we become lazy..
      we depend on others..
      it has a negative effect on our health because we become inactive ..

      What do u think dear ..??

      Absolutely yes. They have strong influences in many aspects. If mothers depend upon
      them more than 50%, sure there will be so many negative effects. For example, children will keep on their mind that she is the only one who can help, support, care……, then she will be involved on their
      life more than their mothers. According to that it is the easiest way to influence their
      minds toward her interest. Maids’ touch should be less than mother touch. Also, she can destroy
      privacy easily. We have to give certain limit to them

      On the point of health and lazy, I agree with you. But we can handle this issue and
      .I think it is not a serious issue

      Regards


    • Hello
      housemaids is most common, anyone can get them... For me I agree to       have them for must impotent reasons>> when there are no women at home, such as worker women or sick... In that case can be houses made in home... But children should be away from them... Because when they work a lot their stress will come out to children who can talk
      Thanks for that nice topic sis
      ٍٍ مهما طال انتظاركم سترون انهم لن يرجعونًًُ

    • Good morning

      I think when husband bring housemaid to help his wife in household affairs is a great idea .. but idon't encourage or


      motive the wife... leave housemaid to serve her husband , cooking and child-rearing
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