The Blame Game

    • The Blame Game



      A man, who cold-bloodedly murdered his sister, says in confession with a sad look on his face: Iblis made me do it

      An extremely over weight woman says as she stuffs more fried beef bites in her mouth: so many wedding feasts and family lunches made me fat

      A couple commit fornication. When finally awaken to their mistake, “well, our families’ are strict. Their strictness breeds explosion" Oh.. and of course we were alone so Iblis made us do it!!!!i

      Our mistakes, wrong-doings or even misfortunes are always someone else’s’ fault!!!!I

      Why is it so hard to admit that we are FREE-WILL human beings and choices we make are nothing but our OWN!!I

      Why is hard to admit that sometimes things just go the way we want them to, because that’s life?s

      My family made me become like this... My friend made me do it … My sister is like that too, i couldnt help it... Its my fate as written by god for me to be like this


      And the ultimate magical excuse for every mistake or crime we commit upon ourselves or upon others
      Iblis made me do it… I was weak... Its Iblis’s fault not mines!!!!I

      Or, on the higher level, when Iblis isnt tactical enough, its Israel/USA who made us like this.. our clothes.. our food.. our music.. don’t blame us for being shallow and light-headed.. its their fault! They targeted us and made us like this!!!!!!I

      Blaming others or blaming circumstances for our choices, mostly our wrong choices, is the norm for everyone. Isn’t it?????s
      From ordinary people like us, to Governments and people with power. Why is it so hard to admit that it was a choice or a decision we made and it just happened to be wrong? Being weak with temptations or being aggressive with anger… or being blinded with greed.. is simply just being Human!! Maybe not a very lovable, admirable or rightfull human.. but ultimately a human with free will... and so are we !!!!I


      Not a sermon, just a thought!!i

    • Thank you Mrs.Unfaithful
      That is life, and that is us. Ever thing we do is either right or wrong, we feel proud of the correct and positive things and take them back to our understanding and knowledge and every wrong action is caused by others around us, it is there faukt, and when we cannot find anybody around to blame we go further and blame Iblis

      That is us, we cannot and would not accept the fact that human beings make mistakes and learn from them, we pretend we do know but when doing one it is always there is some one to blame

      That is life, we hate to be ourselves when things go wrong, we want to live in an ideal world that only exists in dreams, we like to live in dreams, dreaming, day and night

      I believe it is time we learn how to apologize, how to admit things, how to confess, how to face the world we are living in

      I am sure I will be back soon

      Thanks again

    • Yes, Sir :) i
      that is us and that is life

      Eventhough admitting one's mistake is a more proud and honorable thing to do, but because it requires bravery and honesty and strength, which the "blamers" unfortunately lack, and therefore choose to hide behind blaming others and never admitting thier mistakes

      Its our culture, i think. Where our mistakes are always remembered and we would be cursed by them forever
      So it is a faster and easier way to put the fault on someone (or something) else


    • Perhaps because we were not told how to take responsibility of our action!! Good one Mrs Unfaithful and I think you are right that it is a norm to do so.. blaming other is the easiest way to avoid taking responsibility of our mistakes but what most people dont know is the learning and understanding part of it.. because they dont get the chance to take the responsibility, then dont learn much in that case.. perhaps they dont wanna learn from the first place

      When it comes to iblees, thats a totally different story.. we can say that iblees caused so and so, but we cant blame him for our own actions or choices as you call it.. if we are aware and fully concious that we are supposed to take the blame then just take it because we are benefitin from it at the end, at least to act responsibly shows how you take your actions seriously into account and then it grows from little things to bigger things in front of God and try to consider them to fix them instead of balming iblees without learning from it

      cant think of something else at the moment, its midnight and i need to sleep I guess
      Ta

    • eL3aJoOoZ_NaWaR كتب:


      Perhaps because we were not told how to take responsibility of our action!!



      :)
      So you are blaming "Them" for not telling us how to take responsibility

      i do agree with you, and just to add... i think one learns from his own mistakes better than waiting to be taught by others... and this learning doesnt get accomplished unless one recognizes that the wrong that they did was thier own action and own responsibility


      The whole Ibless concept i guess is like a gateway that we all use to refer to what our ego tells us... and what the ego is, is nothing but pure human nature, a nature that could get very vulnerable sometimes with temptation or with anger


    • honest كتب:

      blaming poeple is useful when it mean to teach poeple and tell them about thier mistakes




      well, honest
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      i think you meant to say "admitting our mistakes" can help us in learning

      because how would blaming others for our mistakes help us learn???!!!i


      otherwise i dont agree,excuse me


      You are gladly excused my dear.. but could you maybe pin it down a little more????s