s1. I can name my partner's best friends

s2. I know what stresses my partner is currently facing

s3. I know the names of some people who have been irritating my partner lately

s4. I can tell you some of my partner's life dreams

s5. I know my partner's basic philosophy of life

s6. I can list the relatives my partner likes the least

s7. I feel that my partner knows me pretty well

s8. When we're apart, I think fondly of my partner

s9. I often touch or kiss my partner affectionately

s10. My partner really respects me

s11. There is passion in our relationship

s12. Romance is still part of our relationship

s13. My partner appreciates the things I do

s14. My partner likes my personality

s15. Our sex life is mostly satisfying

s16. At the end of the day my partner is glad to see me

s17. My partner is one of my best friends

s18. We just love talking to each other

s19. There is lots of give and take (both people have influence) in our discussions

s20. My partner listens respectfully even when we disagree

s21. My partner is usually a great help as a problem solver

s22. We generally mesh well on basic values and goals in life

How Many one u ve it?s

Is it 15 or more positive answers?: You have a lot of strength in your relationship.

Is it 8 to 14?: This is a pivotal time in your relationship. There are strengths you can build upon but there are weaknesses that need your attention.

is it 7 or fewer?: Your relationship may be in serious trouble and could be headed for the rocks. If this concerns you, you probably still value the relationship enough to try to get help.