How much jealousy is too much jealousy?i

oMaNi_AsLi · 6 أبريل 2005، 11:15

What is jealous? Why do we feel jealous? Why does jealousy get in the way of relationships? Is it healthy????s
How much jealousy should be tolerated?s

oMaNi_AsLi · 6 أبريل 2005، 11:19

A little jealousy is okay for a relationship. It keeps it healthy. The
key element is trust. If you can trust your partner then
petty jealousy doesn't turn into distrust. When jealousy starts
to consume you then you have a big problem.i

There is a bigger problem here. When do you think jealousy turns into possessiveness?i

Mrs.Unfaithful · 6 أبريل 2005، 14:52

sure, reasonable amount of jealousy is ok

But what is really a reasonable amount??? it differs from person to person
and of course each has thier own limits of what they think is acceptable

I personally believe that no jealousy at all.. means no true feelings..

However... "too much jealousy" is really just a nicer term for obsessivness and manipulation of the partner... it tmostly turn to get obusive either physically or verbally and emotionally
Which in fact is just a mirror of this person's insecurity and lack of confidence and has NOTHING to do with how much they love thier partner

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