!... People with negative attitude

    • !... People with negative attitude



      Some of you, if not all must have faced some negative attitude from your relative or close friends who were/are close to you, who became real barrier to your success. These are the people who always discourage you and tell you …hey don’t try to attempt, Mr X tried it & he failed, not only this but anything in life you want to be, he/she is there to put you down with his/her negative approach. These are the one who put you in stress, depression and look for an obstacles and you can’t ignore them as well for some reason. i

      So what do you do with these kind of people? Will it be possible to change their negative mind to positive? If ‘Yes’ How?i

      Thanx in advance


    • oMaNi_AsLi كتب:



      Some of you, if not all must have faced some negative attitude from your relative or close friends who were/are close to you, who became real barrier to your success. These are the people who always discourage you and tell you …hey don’t try to attempt, Mr X tried it & he failed, not only this but anything in life you want to be, he/she is there to put you down with his/her negative approach. These are the one who put you in stress, depression and look for an obstacles and you can’t ignore them as well for some reason. i

      So what do you do with these kind of people? Will it be possible to change their negative mind to positive? If ‘Yes’ How?i

      Thanx in advance





      A very close freind of mine is like that. she has very negative thoughts about an aspect in her life
      Its true... being around such people with such thoughts may make us feel disturbed or unpleasent.. and sometimes make us worry about this aspect in OUR life

      However, i think most of negative attiude people do not show thier negativity in such an obvious way...(like by them telling you "you cant make it" or "you wont succeed") ... but just by thier comments and way of dealing with things and events...you slowly become negative like them just... by being around them.. without you knowing it

      being affected by the negativity of some people has Horrible effects of us... and i think part of being freinds/relatives with them .. we should try and help them be more positive.. and not leave them in thier notions of pessimism (as most if not all social advisors tell us).... but with being careful that WE who change them.. and not vice versa

    • Mrs.Unfaithful كتب:




      A very close freind of mine is like that. she has very negative thoughts about an aspect in her life
      Its true... being around such people with such thoughts may make us feel disturbed or unpleasent.. and sometimes make us worry about this aspect in OUR life

      However, i think most of negative attiude people do not show thier negativity in such an obvious way...(like by them telling you "you cant make it" or "you wont succeed") ... but just by thier comments and way of dealing with things and events...you slowly become negative like them just... by being around them.. without you knowing it

      being affected by the negativity of some people has Horrible effects of us... and i think part of being freinds/relatives with them .. we should try and help them be more positive.. and not leave them in thier notions of pessimism (as most if not all social advisors tell us).... but with being careful that WE who change them.. and not vice versa





      you can't always find reasons for a negative attitude. however, it does run a little deeper. so don't take it all on face value. you have to evaluate the situation and try to find out their motives - why they are being negative?i

      they may be jealous... may think they know better than you what's best... may know something more about your endeavours, which indicate failure. if that's the case, obviously find out what or why. i

      or, some people are just negative by nature. it might not be specific to you or a personal attack. this is the easiest one to deal with - politely nod and go do what you want to do anyway

      as for changing their attitude - again, depends on the reasons. you can't necessarily change them, but you may be able to view them as insignificant or irrelevent once you find out the reason.i

      good luck $$e


    • oMaNi_AsLi كتب:




      you can't always find reasons for a negative attitude. however, it does run a little deeper. so don't take it all on face value. you have to evaluate the situation and try to find out their motives - why they are being negative?i

      they may be jealous... may think they know better than you what's best... may know something more about your endeavours, which indicate failure. if that's the case, obviously find out what or why. i

      or, some people are just negative by nature. it might not be specific to you or a personal attack. this is the easiest one to deal with - politely nod and go do what you want to do anyway

      as for changing their attitude - again, depends on the reasons. you can't necessarily change them, but you may be able to view them as insignificant or irrelevent once you find out the reason.i

      good luck $$e





      ....well, Thank you for the follow up

      !!!!and thank you for answering your own questions

      :)

    • You know, positive or negative attitude is not really as important as the person in question. I guess the person, or who is that person makes one attitude positive or negative
      I remember a girl, a relative in fact, been living in the same neighborhood for a very long time, known her since she was a little kid, I liked her then, she was both bright and smart.
      Decided to leave last night, and did. Talked to her in such away to make her change her mind, and stay. Never accepted my negative attitude as she describes it. Never meant to be negative, I liked her and thought I was positive, at least from my own point of view. She saw it as a negative one from hers
      Who is right? Who is wrong? Who knows?l
      Never meant to let her down, I wanted her to stay and have ago, rise to the occasion and fight. I know she can do it, wherever she can be
      Her negative or I may say positive attitude toward me made me feel bad, and sad, but thought for a minute and remembered that two negatives produce a positive, but who would see it as a positive
      Now she has gone, and made me confused, thinking, who makes it positive or negative attitude? Can love and caring turn a positive up or down to a negative

      I would only say, farewell to her and to my negative attitude, should it have ever been negative