Really important (( our ego

    • Really important (( our ego

      Our internal ego is one of the key for having people who will be good citizens for our society. First, we have to define what does ego mean? It is ourselves that we normally have a chat with!!!!! This is a very simple definition. We human always have a talk with ourselves especially when we are thinking about something that we intend to do. Sometimes this ego prevent us from doing something bad or something good!!!

      This ego is really important for all humans beings and in fact, our Holy Quraan has shown the importance of such aspect in our life and has shown the fight that we go on with our desires which can be prevented by our egos. Islam gives a lot of attention to such topic because as long as we have good egos as long as we will have good people.
      The most important question is how can we deal with our egos. Some psychologists have shown that this ego should be built since childhood because if a child knows that we have God who can help us in our life and our Mighty God will not be satisfied if we do not pray, this child will transfer such idea to his ego, so his ego will always pushes him to pray whenever he hear the calling for the prayers. This can work not only with religious issues, but also with the social and political aspects.
      I hope we can argue about such topic here.
      Thanks
    • I feel that many people have an erroneous concept of what the "ego" is

      I like the Topic coz it gave me a new information coz actually
      I don't know so much about it
      So,
      May we give us short concept about Ego 2 give the topic completely picture. ..??

      in
      psychoanalysis, it refers 2 another meaning & I want 2 know the real meaning. ..

      Best of luck .. ..

      . . . لاشيء يتغير, الأحداث باردة وغرف القلب باردة و العالم كومة صقيع...,, . . .
    • Mr . english lecturer
      well , though i don't have the right to welcome you here due to my points which i recieved
      anyway , you're welcome
      :)
      fantastic topic , i do admit that this yard is good with some topics but sometimes it present a kind of boring
      issues which keep going on with just thanking people , with no any views or
      even arguments.. so , this is a point with you because you mentioned that


      English lecturer كتب:



      I hope we can argue about such topic here



      lets get back to the topic now
      i read once a quote which says "too much ego will kill your talent" , so i guess the meaning of ego which you talked about
      is not the real one , coz our ego is never a good thing and will never ask us to do good habits

      why our ego won't ask us to do good thing ? because simply
      the word ego is a part of the Selfishness
      and as long as to be a selfish person (a bad thing ) so
      that leads to the result that our ego is a bad aspect or leads to trouble decisions

      the sound that comes from the deep of the heart doesn't called ego , ego means to take everything as if it is yours
      and you own it , though you dont . honestly , i felt free to describe my view towards that
      , so i can say
      that conscience is the good thing that you are talking about in your subject NOT ego

      Sorry if i made a mistake here, wonderful post
      waiting for you to judge that , so we make it clear together
      :)
      من ترك شيئا لله عوّضهُ الله خيرا منه وأنا نويت ترك المنتدى للموت إن شاء الله, وأسألهُ تعويضي في شئ آخر. احسم الموضوع بأنني أريد الإهتمام بحياتي وبصلاتي ويديني واعتذر إن أخطأت في حق أحد , وبالطبع قلبي نظيف على الجميع ولا أحمل شيئا على أحد .أسأله تعالى الرضا والقبول لنا ولكم أجمعين إن أصبت فمن الله وإن أخطأت فمن نفسي والشيطان .. الثلاثاء 12:32
    • ابتسامة عفو كتب:

      Mr . english lecturer
      well , though i don't have the right to welcome you here due to my points which i recieved
      anyway , you're welcome
      :)
      fantastic topic , i do admit that this yard is good with some topics but sometimes it present a kind of boring
      issues which keep going on with just thanking people , with no any views or
      even arguments.. so , this is a point with you because you mentioned that




      lets get back to the topic now
      i read once a quote which says "too much ego will kill your talent" , so i guess the meaning of ego which you talked about
      is not the real one , coz our ego is never a good thing and will never ask us to do good habits

      why our ego won't ask us to do good thing ? because simply
      the word ego is a part of the Selfishness
      and as long as to be a selfish person (a bad thing ) so
      that leads to the result that our ego is a bad aspect or leads to trouble decisions

      the sound that comes from the deep of the heart doesn't called ego , ego means to take everything as if it is yours
      and you own it , though you dont . honestly , i felt free to describe my view towards that
      , so i can say
      that conscience is the good thing that you are talking about in your subject NOT ego

      Sorry if i made a mistake here, wonderful post
      waiting for you to judge that , so we make it clear together
      :)


      Hello sis…..nice to see your views here about the ego which can be sometimes misunderstood because of many reasons I think. I agree with some terms that you have mentioned which can give me an evidence that the woman behind this nick name is a good thinker ^ ^ …
      Any way dear sis, First maybe we have to give a few minutes to look up for the meaning of such word in the dictionary. (Ego) means something related to you. It seems that this word is going around you as a person.
      في العربية هي ضمير الأنا
      Well, too much ego may kill your talent….. I agree, but a good ego (not too much) will help your talents and potentials to be shown because they are forced and enhanced by the Ego at the same time. Too much ego means that the main concern is about yourself not anything else. Ignorance about people will be there in your relations.
      Just I want you to know that in different studies we have something called ego, but my talk now is specifically about psychology which has been proven that it is the key of educating your children.
      Ego in psychology is like something which is born with us, but it is empty. That means we can design and we can shape this important weapon for education. Let me give you another example. If you have children and you keep telling him and teaching him that we have to obey what God asked us to do. After a certain time, this kid will know that internally. Now, you can teach him, for example, praying is the key of God satisfaction. You can tell him that stealing is something very bad in our religion. This kid will grow with these ideas in his mind and he cannot work against them. When the turn of ego can be seen? If this kid, for example, finds 10000000 RO and wants to steal them in this situation the ego will appear to prevent him from doing that because simply he has been told that these are wrong and he has been grown with such ideas.
      In psychology it has been proven that we cannot separate our ego from our thoughts I hope I make things clear here… this is from the brief study that I have about psychology
    • sometimes, we can feel our ego when we are late for our praying. What I can say here is that this ego can be killed if we insist to work against it. You can , for example, see a lot of people who do not pray and they feel relax and comfortable. This is because they have killed their ego

      I hope it is clear now ^^
      I hope we can argue more sis..... glad to open this discussion
    • Masha Allah , fair enough . i feel that you're a psychologist beside being an english
      lecturer . actually , that persuade me because you know , i wasn't having a foundation at that
      it is just i read a statement and then , based on it
      i insert my opinion . so , of course
      comparing to the examples you 've put
      it seems the truth , coz always psychology go indeep in ourselves, relations and even life.
      i just wonder how didn't i focus in "too much" , so yes "Not too much means good thing" . being
      hurry without paying a ttention will leads
      to lose the point that you're struggling to catch. Interesting information
      happy to share
      awesome post , keep going

      خواتم طاعه و رحمه
      :)
      من ترك شيئا لله عوّضهُ الله خيرا منه وأنا نويت ترك المنتدى للموت إن شاء الله, وأسألهُ تعويضي في شئ آخر. احسم الموضوع بأنني أريد الإهتمام بحياتي وبصلاتي ويديني واعتذر إن أخطأت في حق أحد , وبالطبع قلبي نظيف على الجميع ولا أحمل شيئا على أحد .أسأله تعالى الرضا والقبول لنا ولكم أجمعين إن أصبت فمن الله وإن أخطأت فمن نفسي والشيطان .. الثلاثاء 12:32

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