WOULD YOU MARRY ME PLS

    • Thank you both, Mrs. and NaWaR
      I appreciate all information you have provided

      I have a healthy body ( and wealthy :P $$-e ) and as I said all I need is few Kgs, and I am not going to dispute over the beneficial info you both have added

      wait, remember mother saying
      ما يعيب الرجال الا جيبه...افهموها بقى

      And as I mentioned before, burning varies from one body to another and what could be good for one could be bad for another. Sorry if I had to talk about myself, but I'm a kind of person who does tests, body tests, blood tests from time to time not for some thing in particular but because I'm losing nothin, as simple as that. You won't belive it I do it some times for fun, whenevr I go to hospital, or a clinic with anybody I just try all they have, weight, pressure, temp.....fun

      Stii I could not add the 5 Kgs I'm after, and in the end she comes along to ask me, WOULD YOU MARRY ME PLEASE

      You see Ghost I'm sticking to the topic
      Good boy, that is me

      Thanks every body
      10derness


    • yeah no worries Tenderness, but leave your body as it is. why bother gaining few KGs, it's not going to make any major changes, perhaps no one even would notice if you gain weight

      But even if you keep on repeating it, I dont think I'd marry someone before I see him, at least a picture would help you know what I mean? :P

      Cheers




    • tenderness.. once you get married you'll gain weight .. whether you want it or not...
      which brings us back to the main delimma:
      Would she marry you at the first place???

      as long as you're wealthy ... she doesnt have to take to long to say Yes.
      (and you do all those blood tests, what more could she ask for)

      NaWar... just go do a blood -test and you might bump into Tenderness someday...


    • ok you are back to the subject...You finally listened to me.
      sometimes..ما تفيدكم الى العين الحمراء

      You there are still so many things to talk about in this matter..Since you guys mentioned the blood test thingie, maybe you should tell me your thoughts and reasons why would someone would go for a blood test before getting married. How can we apply this here in Oman...and maybe you can also tell me of what you think about Relatives Marriage...

      come on go on...you cam mumble about yourselves a bit...no body is going to hurt you...



    • very important indeed

      In the past, rarely you'll see couples-to-be-wed go for a blood test. they just take it forgranted. But , here in Oman, most couples do go for a blood test before marriage. because in the resent years alot of diseases have spread and also science have discovered that alot of unfortunate cases of diabled children can be avoided if the blood types of the parents were compatible ..

      i dont know what makes you think this is not applied in oman yet, well it is.. all te newly wed couples that i know have done a blood test before marriage ...

      I dont see anything wrong with relatives marriages, its just not as common as it was 20 years ago or so...
      my parents are first cousins.. and all my uncles and thier wives too ...
      but i can never see myself marrying my cousin.. its just weird .. they are like brothers i think.
      so .. even though relatives marriages is ok.. i just dont think its as popular anymore.

      But whether its relatives marriage or not, Blood test is VERY IMPORTANT. For the least, AIDS is spreading (wal 3yath bellah)... and that should be ONE of the reasons why the test should done, with of course other reasons that are equally critical.



    • Yeah, blood test is important as Mrs Unfaithful mentioned the spread of diseases. These include also sickle-cell anemia but it's the disease the breaks the red blood cells.. There is many disease that can be found from blood. It doesnt matter whether couple to be wed are relatives or not

      I know a couple who didnt do the blood test, unfortunately, they both carried theprobability of sickle-cell anemia, 1 of their kids has sickle-cell and is suffering and there is another kid is getting some pain from time to time cause my the disease, as they will be carrying it as well

      I dont think it's hard to apply it in Oman, people need to be educated about it, the reasons behind it and at the end it's all in Allah's hand, but we do have the choice to reduce the possibilities of getting the diseases to our children

      Relative marriages are OK, in terms of keeping the relations between a relatives stronger. However, these days even a sister and brother dont stand each other, you think relatives would? In Oman people started being isolated from their relatives and independant, so they want to choose the person and the way they want to live. But as Mrs Unfaithful mentioned, I also saw my cousins as brothers to me and everytime someone mentioned the idea, i feel like throwing up because it gives me the feelings as if im marrying my own brother, which is disgusting of course!!i So I guess it's all mentality of a person and how he/she looks at the relative marriage

      One of the disadvantages about it is, when a problem occurs, couples tend to get family involved which is not right as a initial step to solve any problem. It may also disbond the family relation and so it makes it weaker and they will start hating each other, but at the end it depends on how those couple deal with things and behave

      It feels much better, going back to the topic

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      Sorry I'm late, as a super moderator I should be faster and first :P , but I had to go to best studio around to take some photos but after more than 20 attempts the photographer failed to get me one good one and makes me look a bit better ~!@@ad . I called it off

      غربوا في النكاح،،،صدق رسول الله
      I believe I have not much to add since Mrs. and NaWaR really said it all. From avoiding and preventing diseases to strengthening family ties....etc

      I would go for what naWaR said, mentality...this is very important and if I to talk about mentality I would call for leaving the boy picks his girl and vice versa. I'm not calling for open relations but we still can manage that without breaching rules, traditions and values

      No body wishes to see a premature and disabled child, carrying all the preparations for the wedding start by making sure that the couples are fit and ready to start healthy wealthy life

      Thank you Mrs. and NaWaR for the benefcial discussin and info and I hope to hear from others, I am sure others have nice ideas and thoughts but are hiding for no reason

      Thank you all
      10derness
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    • Wow Tenderness, for the first time I don't see your reply left aligned.. hehe

      No one complained from you being late Tenderness, take your time in taking those snaps. But tell you what, it's not the photographer, it's you really, dont be shy to deny it!! **devil smile**.. OK you have said something really dangerous here Tenderness, if you say that a man or a woman should choose their partners, then they need to know first who they are, so that they can make a decision, yet in Oman it's extremely hard to eliminate the tradition factor involved because we all respect our traditions, as far as I know!! Now I understand that you are not calling the socalled "open relations" but those who dont know how to handle it, will mess up everything and gradually they will be dragged to the ditch of the relation. Because it is a relation and there is no way we can avoid it. The only thing is they have to make sure to know to have such relation within the boundaries. There are still things that engaged people do, when they are not really supposed to do strictly. They cannot differentiate the control degree over the situation. Trust me, it is hard! But not impossible, as we can do that if we are knowledgable enough about how to handle the situation and control it.

      How do you think Tenderness, couples can choose each other, without crossing the boundaries??i

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      With this super new extraordinary panel, I guess it will take me 90 days to learn how align again, this the problem here, some thonk simplicity is a step backward
      :(

      Thank you NaWaR
      To start with I like to stress I'm not calling for open relationships as some might think or understand. I'm not answering you question as I do not have the answer, the definite answer, but let me ask, how many of our girls attend colleges and universities? how many of them have jobs? Isn't that an open opportunity for them to know some body and just admire him? wouldn't she say YES once he is honest and likes her ans just go ask for her hand?
      May be what I wanted to say that life has has changed and our girls are no more sitting at home seeing no body and just waiting for some one to get them out of their shelters if I may say so

      I'm saying that bearing in mind that I have sisters and cousins, so no one would think I'm only talking about others, NO, i'm not complicated bot open person and respect all , and boundaries, social, religious and traditional
      But life is changing, no, life has changed already

      I'm sure we all have other things to add

      Regards
      10derness
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    • Tenderness, try to learn how to hard code the alignment tag :P

      Yeah, true now they are all out there but still not everyone can see the real inner of those girls. Many can pretend and so the person will be misleaded by an imaginary persoanlity, same case applies on the man. Yeah they are exposed to each other more at this time but who thinks they are good enough?? 10% only and the rest think that, no they are exposed to many people, she is not good, i need someone who doesnt know anyone, who doesnt deal with men, who doesnt... etc

      Cheers

    • NaWaR, I'm already joined a hard code course and hope things get better. I hope the big heads do not come up with new stuff before I finish my course :P I

      NaWaR, There have been victims, and there are more victims coming, that is life, what can we do

      We all had and need to use our common sense, hearts, and brains

      I heard mother saying
      ا يوفع الا الشاطر،،،او الشاطرة.........هذه الشاطرة من عندي ترا

      Regards
      10derness
      :)


    • Tenderness, trust me you dont need a course to learn how to hard code. I can give so many online resources to learn coding, plus there are also many website where you can get codes for free, then you can modify them according to the attributes that you want, there are keywords and parameters to use, just keep on trying and you will be fine. Make sure though that you have a compiler and debugger to check errors in the code

      I guess whenever there is a new attitude introduced to the society, there are people who can use it and misuse it like anything else.. Be positive, there are no brains in the heads of most people. Many people depend on what other people say without taking the effort to check. I will tell you a story that just happened recently. There was this guy who was talking about one of the girls, he was saying that hey I know this girl, we like each other, we've been going out and we did this and that, he reached to the extent of saying that he had ***. Well on the flip side, the poor girl had no clue what was going on!!i She didnt even know that person, now that person really misused the fact that the girls are being exposed to others, I just couldnt understand how people can dare to do so

      You say, use common sense, hearts and brains? Sometimes our judgements are based on fake information, but the most important thing is to learn from it of course and be positive about it, well to look at the bright side of it :)

      Cheers

    • NaWaR, I have money, why should't I take courses. No problem if I learn nothing, who cares. That was an advice I heard from some who have no brains, did not like it though and never followed it
      I thought debuggers and compilers were something to eat, how smart iam $$-e i

      Some are just victims upon there will, and others against there will, and I believe the girl in your story was a victim against her will, and by this guy who has lost his values and self respect. Exposing others even with real things is a bad thiig to do, and only takes sick people to do it

      Some call common sense magic, it has never proved it was, it proved that them people have no common sense, at all

      Whatever the means, let us uti;ize all and as you said look into the bright side of it

      Regards
      10derness


    • Tenderness, what I meant is yom el7esab you will be asked how you spent your money and time, and your life time. If you have other ways to learn things why not taking them?? Im telling you that I learned so much via the internet, I know you have the money, we all do, but why wasting it just because you know you have it? Give it away to the poor people if you think you have it and depend on yourself to learn things rather than a tutor who will show you everything. The internet and websites are becoming much more interactive and user-friendly day by day. At the end, it's entirely up to you, i just told you what I think is useful for most of the people :)

      As you said, victims with their own will and against it. Yeah we all, boys and girls, need to be a bit more careful when dealing with people and try to understand the insight of everyone's personality so that we are not fooled by those wicked people.

      Cheers

    • Tenderness كتب:

      That was directed to rich people only
      #i #i #i

      No wonder you did not
      :P :P :P



      oh my god
      i am so insulted

      What does being rich has to do with people's relationships and being careful from evil intentions???s

      hmmmm... i guess rich people dont need to have "ATM relationships"...i
      yup..it makes sence now.. NOW I GET IT... Tenderness

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