hmmmm

Very Typical




??????Why didnt he marry the woman he loves

This new woman may be an excelent wife, and thier marriage may be perfect in a sense of coopration and sharing responsibilities between the couples

however, if your freind still thinks of his old love, it means his marriage lacks Excitment... it lacks the sparke that was thier between him and his old love

instead of living on his past memories, maybe he should try to love his good wife... because alot of times love comes after marriage


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I think the love before marriage is not a realy love. it is just admiring .... However i think love came after marriage becuase each one got to know the other. So Maybe before marriage he loves the ouside appearance and after marriage he loves the whole personality.

To sum up love came after marraige and i don't believe of having affairs before mariage .
Iam realy astonishing about ur friend behavior of having love affair with women before marriage. i think he just spend his time with her, after that he feel bored. We are in Oman not in USA

thats right, love before marriage is not raely and i think if he will marry a wise women he will be happy because even if he will tells her about his first love she will understand the subject wisely and in shaalah khair, and one most important thing is to froget the old love and start with new love forever<<

thanks

Dandona

saalam bro's and sis's

our prophet may peace be upon him says :
اظفر بذات الدين تربت يداك"

personaly, i dont belive in love before marriage !!! it is only attraction that may come before marriage, infact it is only attraction.

to love some one, you need to live with him/her and experience all the good and bad of each other. love can't be initiated over phone lines or in our dreams, especially these days


dear brother, i wanted to point out some thing you may not be aware of.
you said "i got frined who make love with a leady" be careful with the work make love

it has avery bad meaning.

Best Regards

Majid8383

He means his friend loves or loved a leady..you have to have some inocence in your way of thinking !! i know that you know what he means..you just want us to be carefull ..anyway

marriage is not that easy decition..all people are good in some way..but the point is ..the one have to marry a women who can give him happiness..they should understand each other at least

if your friend gonna married with a women other that the one he loved..he should at least give himself time to recover and to be ready for a new life and a new love..because that women who gonna to be his wife..she needs love as well..never do things in harry..and everything will be ok ..in sha allah

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any way,i want to share you this topic,
the love is tlove any way,with marrige or without,but the important thing iat the love we showld to decide some thing :
it is "we lover this person for what?
we need this love for enjoy our time?
or for try how about th realations?
or for marrige?

so we must to decide about our aims

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I don't need to explain anything here, but if i had a chance I'd go with LOVE..