Guys and Self Pride

    • Guys and Self Pride

      .Guys seem to have this great pride of in them selves....More so then female

      For example if a guy is in a situation were he is disrespected by another person whether it is female or male, he does whatever he can do to keep his pride alive even if it means hurting others in the long run. A guy is more likely to leave a woman he loves because of his own personal pride issues….Where as in females, they are more likely to care about the feelings of their own hearts and other individual (whether it is a male or female) and let go
      .of their pride

      Are you the type of guy who throws and steps on your own heart and feelings
      ?and/or the heart and feelings of others when it comes to your pride


      Do you feel that your self pride more important the feelings of others and even
      ?the feelings of your own heart

      reGARds....oMaNi_AsLI

    • in my opinion, self _pride is a value we learned in childhood by the parents,teachers, and surronding economy( we are the childern of our past). we put our own standered which control our vision to the subjects and cases we face. priority which is different from each person to another has a major effect on our choices,as well as our sex. male and female have different reactions toward the subjects and different needs,so we cant ignore this great aspect. all these together build our personality , our dignity, and give the indicators of our reactions towards what we are facing in life situations not only our sex. this is an overall vision to the subject.

    • Very interesting, Omani Asli

      I am so inetersted in knowing the members comment on this


      Rainbow, I have NO idea what you said above
      :confused:


      As for me, i am a very emotional person, my emotions move me left and right,(Duh..) but al7amdullila i have very strong will ... and i control myself when i feel i am putting myself down or when i feel
      that my dignitity or self-pride are threatened
      not all females have this gift, thank god i do
      But the consequenses are UNBEARABLE... very painful :( i

      I have to say, its very very hard, and i really think its amazing of the guys how they can easily step on thier hearts and feelings just to conserve thier pride

      I wish i was a guy

    • well i like what i read above >>>>


      but i Think that we all get the self prid in a wrong way !!

      self pride comes with our narture ..

      we have 2 ways to do it only ...

      if we were only us without acting or so ...

      and beleive me when i say it's not the matter or men or woman to have it ..

      it's a matter of whom u r not whom u want to be ...

      In love self prid is very had to understand , for me i guess - never been in such matter - but if i love some one so much and he does in the same way, then he'll keep my self prid up and i'll do the same ..

      ppl think that by showing off thats prid , well that sounds so funny , for me

      ...

      sorry that i didntexplaine well but i promise i'll b back i just passed here caz the Subject forsed me to read ...


      thanks a lot for all whom passed here ...



      i'll be back when i have the right words to say ....