Stubborn Family

Lilith · 21 نوفمبر 2006، 1:27

Lets say you got hooked up with this person and you both were madly in love with each other you get to know each other for a while and then decided to get married and live the best life ever and when the time comes for the man to prupose one side of the family disagree because they dont like either him or her

What would you do if you put yourself in thier shoes

هبـ بس حلوه ـله · 22 نوفمبر 2006، 16:32

اصلا محد من العائله بيرفض انه بنته تتزوج واحد الا لو كان فيه عيب!!؟

بعدين انتي ما قلتيلنا كيف يعني يحبوا بعض؟؟؟

الرجال اعجب باخلاقها؟؟؟ الحرمه اعجبت بأخلاقه؟؟؟

Lilith · 22 نوفمبر 2006، 20:37

Let's say he was the perfect guy or girl he or she was perfect in every way but maybe he or she wasn't Omani or was from another religion the parants didn't like the tribe that he came from such stuff how would you convince your parents other wise how would you try to make them change they're mind

هبـ بس حلوه ـله · 22 نوفمبر 2006، 20:44

~!@q انزين اقول غير انه الشاب من عرق ثاني هو ديين يعني ملتزم؟

Lilith · 22 نوفمبر 2006، 20:59

No let's say she or he was from another religion

I don't quite get the arabic even though I am Omani :p

هبـ بس حلوه ـله · 22 نوفمبر 2006، 21:14

if he was from a different faith and shes amoslem thats will be impossible 2 get marriage ,coz its illicit in islam that the womam get marri with a man from another faith.
and iam with the family if the man was from other faith

Lilith · 22 نوفمبر 2006، 21:41

And what if it was the other way around I am not trying to generolize hie subject right to what point you would agree with your parnts and what point would you try to change thier minds at...

هبـ بس حلوه ـله · 23 نوفمبر 2006، 15:38

Lilith كتب:

And what if it was the other way around I am not trying to generolize hie subject right to what point you would agree with your parnts and what point would you try to change thier minds at...

if the right was with me its easy 2 change my parnts idea and in the end thay will consent but if the right was with them this point where am going to stop

oMaNi_AsLi · 23 نوفمبر 2006، 20:20

Lilith كتب:

Lets say you got hooked up with this person and you both were madly in love with each other you get to know each other for a while and then decided to get married and live the best life ever and when the time comes for the man to prupose one side of the family disagree because they dont like either him or her

What would you do if you put yourself in thier shoes

To be honest, this is exactly what happened to one of my friends in a real life, the entire family of him were against marrying the girl of his dreams, it took many months for them to finally agree, why?

Because they were against marrying a girl from a far family, usualy, people get married within close families or arranged marriages,

For me I hate arranged marriages, marrying someone you never met before or even spoke to, to convince my family that she was my right choice and the only one, that required much petience, untill they agreed.

You can now see that marriage is a big deal. It is not a party one weekend—it is a lifetime commitment to your spouse. The parents want you to choose the "right" person", A person who will help you to make the marriage work, A person who is stable and kind. A person who is slow to anger (LOL), A person who is a good worker and who has a good job! A person who will be a good mother or father.
In a true love and commitment, marriage will last forever, the choice comes within yourself, its a decision you make for the rest of your life.

oMaNi_AsLi · 23 نوفمبر 2006، 20:34

هبـ بس حلوه ـله كتب:

اصلا محد من العائله بيرفض انه بنته تتزوج واحد الا لو كان فيه عيب!!؟

بعدين انتي ما قلتيلنا كيف يعني يحبوا بعض؟؟؟

الرجال اعجب باخلاقها؟؟؟ الحرمه اعجبت بأخلاقه؟؟؟

(Hi miss habla ( i liked ur nickname

thanx alot for ur participation

i have one remark if u dnt mind of the language, this is
ENGLISH FOURM as u know
next time ,i hope if u type all ur replies in
english, it will look more better
and this is also English area constitution i do follow

please dont understand me wrong okayz

ma reGARds...oMaNi_AsLi

Abnormal · 28 نوفمبر 2006، 8:37

Hmmmm, dats very complictaed prob
wen i think abt it,
bt if da gal cudnt convince her parents,
then she better ask her aunts or uncle,
grandfather or grandmother
sum1 who has a word in da family n can
convince ur parents in a nice way

Good luck

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