the smart or the beautiful................which one??????????

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    1. enough from her she will knows what the life means not as the beautiful one she will know what’s the new fashion and she want to keep herself beautiful ....
    2. but if not I will keep her away and I will choose the smart one ..
    3. Also you have to control your mind and your heart Finally if you can't choose one of them you have to leave both of them I hope to find your heart as well as your mind#i |e

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    • the smart or the beautiful................which one??????????

      Your heart has a problem which mean you has an emotional problem … you feel that you are attractive toward two people which they are completely different …the first one is handsome


      or if she is a girl she is a beautiful very beautiful but the another one is clever and intelligent and has not that much beauty but not ugly which mean has moderate beauty ….you love both of them so much so that you cant choose one of them because you don’t want to regret when you lose one and keep the another … both of them have the same statue in your heart ….. So what will you do??????????? Which one will you choose????????????      :
      $$e :D |y

    • Well, this questions looks like a puzzle that can't be solved, at least with the conditions you stated! However, i would say that, One would have to make certain choices in his life that are very important and very hard at the same time. The situation presented here is a possibility! I would think that, if enough thought is given to the situation, one could come out with a preference, and as such the ability to make the choice. With allah's will it might be the right one

    • Thanks very much master for ur post …good decision…but I mean by my topic to discover human being desire although its differ from person to anther….but I would ask u again as a guy which one will do you choose the smart one or the beautiful ……..with consider that guys interested about beauty more than intelligence of course girls do in some cases but its rarely because they care most of the time about his personality……..so when they see beautiful girl they cant divert their sight ……..
      Think again and thanks again       |e

    • thanks YSK-lol.... vermuch for ur post im happy to see your reply with me .... u said u will control this situation by ur mind not by ur heart .... i think its easy to say this word but its difficult to do it most of the time .....but as well as u have strong will you will can do any thing and nothing will stop u ... i hope so
      thanks again


      |a :D |e

    • I quote what u written “easy to say this word but its difficult to do it” Oh yeah it is very difficult to control our mind, we made life complicated, let's first understand what KISS means
      K………Keep
      I………..it
      S………simple
      S………stupid

      You see how we have made life so very complicated and it really isn't necessary
      Also the five P rules say Proper Preparation Prevent Poor Performance, which means you have to think before your act. So when you come to a situation that’s you have chosen between using heart or mind think about the CONSCIOUS & SUB-CONSCIOUS. There is quite a difference between the conscious and the subconscious. Actually the subconscious is exactly like a tape recorder; it will only reflect what has been put on its tapes
      Remember seeing a child learns to walk. He has a very hard time at first, but with practice he becomes very good at it and soon he begins to run! The conscious mind thought how and when he learned how then it became automatic. At that point the subconscious took over and he no longer had to think how to walk. Now what happens is that when we want to walk our conscious mind asks our subconscious mind (which reflects the heart decision) how and the mind plugs in the walk tape and we walk without having to use our conscious mind. You see the conscious mind taught the subconscious mind how, and from that time on it became automatic So if we practice to use conscious mind will avoid the heart decision

      I quote again what you've written "will you will can do any thing and nothing will stop u" If there is a something will stop me from what I want do, it will be only the death
      ~!@r

    • I am going to tell you about real experinces of some of my friends$$7

      Actually i have a friend who loves a man and she just follows her heart without thinking about the consequences that are waiting her in her life..
      She never used her mind to think how her future is going to be,,because her heart was laready over her mind whish is a dangerous thing..we should always use our mind before listening to our herts beating
      Unfortuately , my friend still suffering until now and she couldn't go over it..the fact the man she choose is not siutable to her coz there are so many difference between them..

      all what i could say is, use your mind before you followe your heart or you will be in a terrible situation

    • Hi … thank you for your topic
      Really it’s very nice and need to use your brain and your heart
      So if I will choose the beautiful one .. what she will do for me .. Nothing I will not get from her any information or any thing good
      Beautiful if it’s from her heart not from her face I will accept it .. but if not I will keep her away and I will choose the smart one .. she will help me and make my life going straight .. enough from her she will knows what the life means not as the beautiful one she will know what’s the new fashion and she want to keep herself beautiful ....
      By the way no one will be perfect .. people made mistake

      This is my opinion
      Thank you
      |a :D

    • هاجس الحب
      thank u very much for your post and im sorry to answer u late ...but im bussy so now rarely i open asaha ......ok actually i like ur post very much ...which show that ur smart ....but i still think its eassy to say but difficult do ...........
      انسه قنبله
      thanks very much for ur reply ...i agree with u that there is no person has this kind of charecter ..........yas there is no one perfect .......ofcourse every body has some not good charecter .........but we can forget that small things and look to the good side ........if good things cover the bad things ........
      الوسيــــــــــــــــــــــــــم
      thanks for ur post
      but
      if u want to be crazy do that and i gurntee that you will live at asaylm after afew monthes       |t |t :D |e |e

    • Well...this issue is really interesting and confusing especially for men but for me as a girl firstly I'd choose the smart then I'll look at the other things like the other sides of his personality, the common things between us and so on but I'd never choose the beautiful be'cose I 've discovered that they're mostly vain more than a beautiful women are... ofcourse this just an opinion[/COLOR]

    • thanks very much for ur post dream
      im trully agree with u .....but we are as girls not only boys when we see or meet new girl ..... we commen if she is beauty or not ............so we said humen nature is looking for beauty
      but some times intillingance force as to forget this word       $$e $$e |e |e

    • Miss Tornedos

      Thanks alot for ur post

      My Opinion

      I think the selection between Smart and Beautiful or Handsom differ from one person to another. I m still single, but it is important for me that my future wife to be Beautuiful and Smart

      Beauty is given from God, and we all know that, but samrtness or brilliant becomes from the environment which is surrounding the person. What I meant is , that if the person lives between and educated family, then he or she must become smart if there is no physically problem in the Brain

      We all have brains, but to be smart you should read,write, absorb information from the world u r living in, contact lots of educated peple specially overseas people and lots of other factors that may help u to be brilliant

      This was my my first post in the English Forum, hopping to get more knowledge from the members here

      Best Wishes
      Smart Prince

    • Good morning to you all

      to be honest its such a diffcult satuation,but it has to be solved as soon as possible
      because it will hurt one of them more latter on

      in my opinion

      this selection is up to the man and da way he think
      and its hard and so hard to hurt people espically girl in this satuation
      if some people expand thier mind for example might be that girl which is not that pretty might be such a good girl
      so i think i will choose the good girl and i know how i choose her very well

      my best wishes
      and thanks again for the nice subject and discution

      wish you nice day all

      :D $$-e

    • helllllllllllllllllllllllo every body
      thank u very much for your participations
      awatf.......... honest....... smart prince
      awatf
      im totally agree with u that beauty will vanish one day ....but as i said before .........humen nature is looking for beauty eventhaugh it will end one day ...........
      you can say beauty is like a candle one be one goes to the end ........
      thanks alot

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      especilly thanks for honest
      ii agree with u but i as you said its difficult situation and difficlut to say what we will do if we face this problem ........do you know i get this idea from a movie .......so i start to think what i will do if i face this problem ...........untill now i dont know ........but im sure from my self .................... that i will choose the best ..........


      thanks very much smart prince ..........and my thanks for u offer with a bunch of flower................
      im agree with u ......... that beauty given from god and we could improve our intillgince from our invironment..........................
      as i said im totally agree with u ..................      sorry i have a lecture now i have to go
      but i will rewrite when i have free time ............







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    • lovelygirl thanks for your reply
      im sure for myself i will choose .......the pest .....................but what about you ..............................

      the clever is always the pest ..................for hos or her intelligent .....................cause its endless...............unlike the beauty...................................      $$e $$e $$e :D :D :D |e |e |e

    • nice topic to be discussed:


      at first ...as human being , your heart can not love two at same time....you can say"admire".....at this situation....you have to think carefully and intelligently.....the beauty can go due to any cause like"accident ,burning"....but if you think about intelligence ;it remains .....also when you are in a trouble who will help you ,the beatiful or the ismart one????.....

    • Good One

      Dear tornedos daughter,
      Dea all,

      Thanks for the subject, and for the difficult question.
      I remember a song that says " when you are in love with a beautiful woman, it is hard, every body wants her, every body loves her......."

      As for me, I would go for the smart one, and see how beautiful she is, and love her more and more.
      By doing so, I guess I won both.......what do you think?

      10derness

    • hellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll all of you
      i miss alsahaha so much ..... that i was doing some exams i couldnt open this section .....................
      but thanks God im freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
      i hope you too
      kull aam wantum finefor the eid and ifortunatelly we have to say Go0d bye for Ramadan.....................
      speciall thanks for asma and 10derness.......
      i hope you enjoy reading my subject .......... and put yourself in that situaton ........................
      i want to tell u a secret ...........................................
      that i know you answer ........... surre every one will choose the smart ...................... but untill this menite ...............i print by my ten fingers and ten toes that you will choose the beautifll cause this is humen nature we cant stop our attract to the beautiful things


      but may be till we be in this situation wil know which one we will chooooooooooooooooooooooooooose


      and please at that time remember me       |e |e |e |e

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    • Ur topic is interesting but I wanna ask give a short story then a question of the story then you can judge which one is important which will help the reader to answer suitably!!!

      Suppose you choose a beautiful lady who is the pretties in the village and everybody dreams to get the sand that she walks on!! But because nothing is perfect except God, she is no that much smart. Since she is a lad sure she knows how to use the kitchen. One evening her winner husband ask her to cook chicken for him. She does not know how to cook but she insists to try but unfortunately the Gas of the cooking explodes and destroys her beauty. She becomes Ugly. Now do you think the husband will continue loving her since he had chosen her for her beauty

    • A salaam alikum wa rahmat Allah wa brakatuh
      A great thanks for dream and albaron …….. dreams-83 for your words I think you do hard work ……………..albaroon ………… thanks a lot for your story …………Sure all of us no what the answer ……….and we will choose the smart instead of the beautiful ………..but loooooooooooooooooook around you you will see most of gays chooooooooooooooooose girls for their beauty …………..cause they don’t know if they are smart or not ………… and if she is such a stupid one not until the red line ………they can't control their heart ……….and they will not leave the one their heart choose for such a reason ……..
      For me if I love someone I care about his intelligence more than his face ……….cause as you said beauty is ended but smartness not until you become senile……………….yahh its could some times ended befor this time by accident ( la smah allah )
      But still as human being beauty attract as more than intelligence ………………what do you think………………………………..
      If we astonish by someone smartness it will be for a while …………… but for another beauty it will be prolong as we see his face ……………..

      bye have a nice eid and eat meshkek as possible as you can ...........dont forget me|e |e |e |e

    • ASK YOURSELF

      Ask yourself


      Do we walk on a wrong way?
      What do you feel when you walk up every morning?
      Have you ever ask yourself any question before leaving your bed?
      Where do you go? What you hope to know about this world? What you give
      others? Are you reach your goals? Do you plan for future? If so, what will you
      do ,walk to, see for , speak with and why?
      If you can answer all these question you can answer your question . if you can't I can't help you Dear