Love Trap

    • Love Trap

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      You may wonder why did I choose this topic. Why did I choose the word trap with LOVE. IS it possible?
      Many answers may pass through your mind while you are reading this title. IS it something positive or negative?
      I decided to write this topic because I noticed that we have many topics have been discussed in English section talking about love. There are many topics talk about the meaning of love, the joy of love, being in love and so on. However, we never tried to see the opposite side for love. In other words, we haven’t tried yet to conceal the other face for love.
      You may say that I am going to talk about the dark side of love. The side that we want it to be covered with veil and we don’t want to admit that we felt in a trap of love.
      Some of you may accuse because what I am going to write in this topic and you may have the right, but why don’t you try to read carefully and then judge me. So, try to read rather than accusing me by calling me by some words that may prove for you that I am against something called Love.
      Well, let me say that you are wrong if you think about me in such away. You will hardly find a person without love in his life. Allah has created us and bestow us a heart that contains thousands of feelings. A heart that is ready to love at any moment and ready to open its door when the color becomes green announcing for a lovely feeling enter to this small heart. But this heart is so sensitive that may broke at any moment when the color turns to red announcing the emergency.
      IS it possible that we may find this in our hearts. How could the heart announced the emergency, a critical moment attacks the heart? How could we get with this!!!
      Love is just one word in a dictionary but it is a word that can not be expressed in one line. Love can be explained in more than a book. It could be expressed in many books by different writers. You may say it is exaggeration to describe the love in such away, but love is a huge world full with feelings and expressions.

      I am afraid that you are getting bored now, because I am still in the introduction. And you have to be patient with me to reach to the end of my essay. So, you have to get accustomed with my long boring writing because it is my style that I can’t change it. I like to talk so muchJ
      Shall I continue or it is better to post the rest of the essay in other post and in other day so it could be easy for you read the topic and not get tired or feel bored.
      Do you know what. I will stop here because I am the one who got tired now because it was a long tired day. So I will continue the rest in other post. Could you please forgive me. But maybe this will be better for all of us so we could discuss the topic together in a good way.
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    • Back to you again…

      What attracts my attention about this topic is how people deal with the word LOVE, and how do they get involved in a long story about Love..
      Sometimes, people may choose a wrong path to have love in their lives , and when they already get involved with love, they feel as if they are inside a trap. Or may say that they feel that they are inside a circle and they run inside it trying to search for an end but unfortunately a hard suffering is the result in the end. Consequently, they feel that they can’t get from that circle and they scream and shout asking for an exit for their suffering.
      In other words, some people engage with their lovers but by a wrong way. A way that let them feel miserable and hopeless instead of having the joy of the love.

      We have to be careful in the way we deal with this word, because if we were careful in our judgment and our choices, we may have a happy life. However, if we choose a wrong way to enter love by a silly mistake that may let us suffer a lot in our lives.
      In other words, some people fall in love without they know, and when they find out that they can’t go back because their feeling are already have been programmed in love. Some people may be careful and they try to think carefully about this matter and are they going well with their plans if they think about their engagement.
      I will stop here to not confuse a lot. And I will continue inshallah next time talking about the real lovers. The true way of love for a happy life. So, hope that I will be able to continue what I have already started over this topic if ia have a life by Allah will inshallah. But if you felt boring or confused about this topic, just inform me to stop.

    • كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : البارون
      i am waiting ur writing coz
      i don't know what does love mean
      is it positive or negative
      wt i know it is positive for my family., brothers ans sisters only
      others i have no idea
      so i'm waiting ur lovely topic



      Thanks Baroon for reading this long bored topic
      Actually i was hesitated to complete it or not
      because i am afraid that i am not presenting the topic in a good style

      but even if one member is just interested
      i will try inshallah to complete it
      because i am still writing the topic part by part

      So you have to be patient with me to the end

      See you later

    • كاتب الرسالة الأصلية : Whisper
      Thanks Baroon for reading this long bored topic
      Actually i was hesitated to complete it or not
      because i am afraid that i am not presenting the topic in a good style

      but even if one member is just interested
      i will try inshallah to complete it
      because i am still writing the topic part by part

      So you have to be patient with me to the end

      See you later


      hiiiiiiiiiiii whisper
      u wrote a long topic :confused:
      but i read it to the end and i found #i

      there is no negative side of the love in my heart
      all that i know about love is in the right side

      dear whisper
      love is not just a word to say
      or a game to play
      it's not tommorrow or today or yesterday

      love is a big word which cannot be shorted in a sentence

      love is the favorite word in my heart

      i love my family,i love my friends,i love all the people i know
      $$e $$e



      keep writing in this topic dear whisper and u'll find me reading it regullary and i'll be patient just to read about the love

      my regards to u |e |e

    • It must be love, love love

      Dear Whisper, Thanks for love project. No problem it took me a month to read....lol, kidding only
      NO, I did enjoy it, I really did, and i guess my coming words do not deviate a lot from what you have already said

      Some people fall in love, and who falls might break a neck or a leg, this is a fact, and only few get away with it!!!

      Some others just love for the sake of love, no feelings, nothing.

      Others think they are in love, and find later they are far away

      It could be the only way to know when we fall in love, when we break a neck, or a leg.....no, no,no.......when we sit out there and see and know how much we sacrified, cried, and moaned

      I admit it, yes I do, Whisper has beaten me, I need to spend months if not years writing about them 2 letters (حب) but i will come back, if not to add, to read

      And before i go, let us be frank.....WE ALL CAN LOVE anyone, anything, anywhere, anytime

      Thanks a lot for all

      10derness

    • كاتب الرسالة الأصلية بائع القلوب
      hiiiiiiiiiiii whisper
      u wrote a long topic :confused:
      but i read it to the end and i found #i

      there is no negative side of the love in my heart
      all that i know about love is in the right side

      dear whisper
      love is not just a word to say
      or a game to play
      it's not tommorrow or today or yesterday

      love is a big word which cannot be shorted in a sentence

      love is the favorite word in my heart

      i love my family,i love my friends,i love all the people i know
      $$e $$e



      keep writing in this topic dear whisper and u'll find me reading it regullary and i'll be patient just to read about the love

      my regards to u |e |e




      Thanks hearts Seller for reading the topic.
      Sure Love is a favorite word to all of us
      Because without Love there is no taste for Life.

    • Re: It must be love, love love

      كاتب الرسالة الأصلية Tenderness
      [B]Dear Whisper, Thanks for love project. No problem it took me a month to read....lol, kidding only
      NO, I did enjoy it, I really did, and i guess my coming words do not deviate a lot from what you have already said

      Some people fall in love, and who falls might break a neck or a leg, this is a fact, and only few get away with it!!!

      Some others just love for the sake of love, no feelings, nothing.

      Others think they are in love, and find later they are far away

      It could be the only way to know when we fall in love, when we break a neck, or a leg.....no, no,no.......when we sit out there and see and know how much we sacrified, cried, and moaned

      I admit it, yes I do, Whisper has beaten me, I need to spend months if not years writing about them 2 letters (حب) but i will come back, if not to add, to read

      And before i go, let us be frank.....WE ALL CAN LOVE anyone, anything, anywhere, anytime

      Thanks a lot for all

      10derness
      [/B]


      Thanks Tenderness for taking this long period to read my topic
      And I am really sorry but it is good to read it as a story before bed time. Lol, just kidding.
      I will try next time inshallah to make my topics shorter.

    • Well what I want to say it shortly that it is better for those who loves and wants to get married to make the path shorter and know their families opinions about their marriage before they fall in love with their lovers or they will may put themselves in a position nobody will endure it.

      Besides that, the real lovers are the once who love at first Allah and their families and have good attitudes towards all people. Im my point of view, these lovers are the best model for true lovers because if they love Allah and their parents , they will make sure to love their wives and vice verse.

      See you all
      If you have any other comments, I am ready to discuss it with you but without a war!!

    • Hello Whisper
      I loved your comment that a person must first love Allah then family in order to be able to love his or her companion. This is very true. but very rare.
      We would have less broken hearts and misrable souls if people loved each other more in terms of respect, appreciation, kindness and such.

      I would like to add a comment,
      I believe that if you want to be truely loved by someone, you have to love yourself first.
      If you truely love yourself, you will know what is best for you. You will not continue loving a person who might be aggressive or doeosnt respect you.
      If you truely love yourself, you will think with your mind as well as your heart, and you will try to avid harming or hurting yourself. sure , we all get hurt and sad , but if you truly believe breaking-up is best for you, you will continue on with your life even stronger than before.

      I am saying these words and i am way far from being them. I wish i could be like that. some people have the gift of strength and strong-will and many dont. There are the strong and the weak and the ones in between.

      I hope i am not drifting away from the subject, but what i am trying to say is that love does exist.
      But if i hate myself, or if i believe i deserve the least, and i am pathatic, how will I expect somenone to love me or to continue to love me?

    • كاتب الرسالة الأصلية Whisper
      What r u waiting?$$t

      I believe that i have said all what i want to say in this topic briefly in the last reply

      try to read it again
      and if you have any commenst just tell me


      i did not write that msg which is" i am still waiting" coz i use the sometimes the cafe' computer when i am way from my personal computer. may be somebody else wrote it or i did it without paying attention. these weeks i've got a list of work to do. so i apologize if that annoyes you and remember i might not the person who wrote coz i become forgitful peson when i have many work to do . i may have forgetten to close the page that day so somebody played with it.

    • Love is my world

      [IMG]This is the first time for me to give my opinoin in Discussion room
      Really you choose a nice subject for discussion
      Love is the basic thing in this life without it our life will be nothing.
      . The dealing with love depends on our view to this word
      By controlling our emotions and feeling and following the religious we can keep love growing forever in our hearts and by this we can avoid alot of suffer and painfull in our life[/IMG]
      $$e

    • Dear
      شذى الياسمين
      We are all proud to have you here with us, with your brothers and sisters, and do not make it you last visit to hot and exciting discussions we have here, we are waiting to see you here more and more

      What you have said dear ia absolutely true, and yes, Love can make us avoid lots of sufferinf and pain

      Thank you dear


      Brother
      10derness