what do KHALJES do when they travel abroud?????

    • what do KHALJES do when they travel abroud?????

      hellllllllllllllllllllllo everybody..........
      in this page i want to discuss with you a problem i have noticed in our society .....
      many omanies who travel to study abroud and do not get married which mean they still young between 19 to26
      they see there new life ...new country ..no supervision .... no one know what they do in that country and forget the watchfull ..... there they do what they can not do in their country ....they accept to have a girl friend while in their country they do not ..... they do movements they do not do in their country ..... What they do not accept for their sisters they accept it for themselves ...yes maybe that girls its normal for them but does it normal for you ...does it normal from your religon side ...your moral ...your principles.... I wonder how they forget the one who can see them wherever they are ....why do they let alienation lands cover what their mother land teach them .....who is the responsible .... four or five years can cheange what more than 15 years teach them ..... when they return to their country after finish their studying there ...Can they sdjust again with there country traditions and culturs ?????????? |y |y
      they think that alienation land offer for them what they country do not ....but if they think again and again they will see it does not offer more than spoil fpr them ...it spoil their personality ...spoil their moral .....spoil their religon .....
      i agree that alienation teach us many things especilly to be responsible ....but when it comes to teach us things can not accept it in our mother land ......it [COLOR='00BFFF']d      [COLOR='16A2F5']e[/COLOR][COLOR='2B86EB']s[/COLOR][COLOR='4169E1']t[/COLOR][COLOR='2B46EB']r[/COLOR][COLOR='1623F5']o[/COLOR][COLOR='0000FF']y[/COLOR] us ....
      the one who has good believe and faith will not influnce by that
      new country in contrast ....he or she try to be more closer to GOD

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      :sad :sad #h #h

    • Thanks sister for sharing us this noticable issue. Let me start that i may agree with you and not at the same time because that is true that some guys feel and act free when they study abroad and do what they want to do, usually do things never were able to do it in their countries. However, we should here judge the good from bad boys. I believe that in the end related to the person or the girl himself or herself. If he or she is decent and know thier main reason for being abroad that will keep them away from troubles and let them focus in their studies rather than other things like making friendship with the other gender.
      In other words, if the student is resposible and feels he want to learn he or she will never try to be different as he or she use to be..But unfortunately we can find many girls and boys as you just describe them and you can have a proof for this Omani students who study in Jordan in Qatar.

      Well, let us hear the opinions of other members

      See you later

    • it is intersting topic sister , what you said is nice but unfortunately u have exagerated little bit. wt whisper said is right. i won't add anthing after whisper opinion except the following words

      I believe whither you( students who study abroad) have a girl \ boy friend or not it depends on what your parent have been teaching you. Your moral reflects your parents. If you come from good family you won’t do bad things that your parent dislike. I would like you to see who commits immoral behave. Sure you will find those who come from family that consider the moral decay as a moral issue.

      Thanx for your topic
      I wish all members came up with interesting social topics that discuss the Omani social problems whither inside or outside Oman.

    • Hiiiiiiiiiiiii ………whisper thanks for your show here ……. You said you do not agree with me for some points …. This is your right to give your opinion and you are more than welcome anytime…I understood from you that you think it's depend on person himself / herself if he or she realises that they go there to study not to make friendship …. I want to say no one can stay without a friend …of course you agree with me ….but what kind of friends they choose …. When you abroad you want to make friendships with Arab like you …so sometimes they under enforcement to accept some bad people ….but good one start to transform to bad one like their bad
      friends ….as we said in Arabic saying
      من عاشر قوما اربعين ليله صار منهم)
      good one rarely can change bad one
      believe me I do not say this thing to only chatting or arguing …I see…I heard… many stories about good people who are or were studying abroad were good and from good families they were completely good people but they return with new character …like I have a story about that guy who was very good Moslem…. when he return from Europe he was completely different …you can not imagine that he is the same person who was before he went up the plane to that country …. Friends always can change in your personality …but if you are a good one and you believe in your character no thing can change you in contrast you change them by your confident in everything you do ….
      Thanks a lot for your post …I appreciate that

      Hello ALBARON thanks very much for your post but I think I amalgamate my replay for your post with WHISPER …thanks again       |e |e |e

    • Yor are absolutely right dear that nobody can live without friends and i didn't mean it when i said they should focus in their studies rather than making friendship with the opposite gender>>here i pointed to the wrong side of making friendship and i didn't mean the real friendship..I will tell you something, I persnally studied abroad and i was ery careful in choosing my friends and try to avid the girls who had some bad reputation(making friendship with guys and go out with them) because if i alowed to myself to be close from them that will notbe for my benefit at all and as you said the Arabic proverb that mentioned up..S, in the end that will relate to you to mak friendship with good or bad friends..

      I also saw some girls from good families who were so good in their morals and behaviours but they tend to the wrong side and i really wonder why?!!IS it because they want to change their lives or what?! but they destroyed their own lives by themselves because of their bad dicisions>>.


      Sorry for replying so fast and you may find many spelling mistakes because i am in hurry so i apologize to all of you

      regards
      Whisper

    • hi whisper thanks alot and i want to say this in Arabic
      افــــــــــــــــــــــا ما بينا
      do not be sorry when you are with tornedos daughter .... you did not say anything wron............. thanks again and becarefull
      goood luck
      also
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    • كاتب الرسالة الأصلية tornedos daughter
      hi whisper thanks alot and i want to say this in Arabic
      افــــــــــــــــــــــا ما بينا
      do not be sorry when you are with tornedos daughter .... you did not say anything wron............. thanks again and becarefull
      goood luck
      also
      [COLOR='00BFFF']ك[/COLOR][COLOR='04BAFD']ل[/COLOR][COLOR='07B6FC'] [/COLOR][COLOR='0BB1FA']ع[/COLOR][COLOR='0EACF9']ل[/COLOR][COLOR='12A8F7']م[/COLOR][COLOR='15A3F5'] [/COLOR][COLOR='199EF4']و[/COLOR][COLOR='1C9AF2']ا[/COLOR][COLOR='2095F0']ن[/COLOR][COLOR='2391EF']ت[/COLOR][COLOR='278CED']م[/COLOR][COLOR='2A87EC'] [/COLOR][COLOR='2E83EA']ب[/COLOR][COLOR='317EE8']ا[/COLOR][COLOR='3579E7']ل[/COLOR][COLOR='3875E5']ف[/COLOR][COLOR='3C70E3'] [/COLOR][COLOR='3F6BE2']خ[/COLOR][COLOR='3F66E2']ي[/COLOR][COLOR='3C60E3']ر[/COLOR][COLOR='385BE5'] [/COLOR][COLOR='3555E7']و[/COLOR][COLOR='314FE8']ع[/COLOR][COLOR='2E4AEA']س[/COLOR][COLOR='2A44EC']ا[/COLOR][COLOR='273EED']ك[/COLOR][COLOR='2339EF']ي[/COLOR][COLOR='2033F0'] [/COLOR][COLOR='1C2DF2']م[/COLOR][COLOR='1928F4']ن[/COLOR][COLOR='1522F5'] [/COLOR][COLOR='121CF7']ع[/COLOR][COLOR='0E17F9']و[/COLOR][COLOR='0B11FA']ا[/COLOR][COLOR='070BFC']د[/COLOR][COLOR='0406FD']ه[/COLOR][COLOR='0000FF'] [/COLOR]$$e $$e |e |e |e




      EID MUBARK TO YOU DEAR$$e

    • Dear tornedos daughter
      Thank you. I read the topic and I cannot be but brief and concise, I read it with its title suggesting Khaleejis, we ended up talking about Omanis…No problem

      No dear, we are much much better off, I have been to Jordan, I have been to Qatar, where dear Whisper referred to, and seen it all
      I admit it, and to be honest plus I can say we are not angels, we are not devils, we are simply human beings, do wrong things, do right things…some are doing it wrong, most are doing right…Alhamdolellah

      I know Iam not adding much to what dear Whisper and Baron have already stated but please let us all be honest and say it clearly, not every friendship among our boys and girls here at home and abroad is a boyfriend-girlfriend one, we do mix things up and use the term to describe what could have been honest and respectful relationship.

      Thank you




      10derness

    • Hi again,
      Hi Tenderness, nice to see you again in English section and I am really sorry if I drive away from the main topic..Well, I mentioned Omanies as an example because I already know well my people..But I am sure it doesn’t changes the main idea of the topic.

      I have to admit something Tenderness, I didn’t understand you and I really get confused. So, why don’t you try again to give us your opinion what I am sure it is something rather than mine and Albaroon’s.
      So I will be glad if you try again to clarify your point again.
      I hope I am not bothering you by my request.
      Regards
      Whisper

    • Hello again, and I do apologize as my response or rather comments were supposed to come after Baron's but due to the problems at omantel I found myself a little bit late

      Anyway, I hope this will clear any confusion as dear Whisper might have been talking about as a I see myself clear otherwise no confusion nothing

      If there is still any confusion, then I would call it SUSPENSION, who knows



      10derness

    • Dear Miss Tornedos

      Well, u know what they are doing outside the country, because if I m not wrong u studied in Leeds

      Dear Sister

      First .. besfore everything, the students should ask themselves, before they step into the PLANE: Why i m going outside the countr??1

      To get a certificate??1

      To have fun??1

      To cheat myself??1

      bla bla bla

      The only people will be proud when it is time to be graduated, are the one who planned to go for a certificate before they get into the plane at first time

      I have been to many countries, and I met lots of omani students there, I was so sorry for them, specially the girls

      Do u belive?? one day I was in I was in DUTY in Seeb Airport, and went up to Duty Free, on my way I saw students(girls) wearing HIJAB saying bye to their families, and then went through the gate. After few mins, I saw the same girls, without HIJAB, and without ABAYAH. The question is why?? who r they cheating?? Their God?? Ther Families?? or themselves

      It was very very stupid action... and belive me, they will not success in their life

      Well, There are lots of things I wanted to minsion, but I think it is enough for the moment, and just see the pics I attached for the KHALEEJI students who r studying in UK

      Best Wishes
      Smart Prince


      --------------------------------------------

      Sorry personal pictures are not allowed thanks

      tony1881

    • Thanks very much all ………..especially for smart prince… you did really hard work to show us these photos ……..REALLY I CAN NOT IMAGINE what you show us ...........what i can say
      ان لله وانا اليه راجعون
      thay have no dignity no honour if they are all of them ... Arab
      but still ALLAH over us and see what we do       #h #h #h #h #h :eek: :eek: :eek: |t |t $ $ $ :sad

    • My goodness!!
      I am have studied abroad, and i know what you guys have talked about. As i was just about to write my opinion, i saw the pictures... my god!! I KNOW one of the girls in the pictures (by the way I am a girl not a guy!!)
      i know her well while we stayed in the same city. To let you know, that girl was one of the sweetest and nicest people i have met. I am sure many of you have cursed on the people in the pictures, but.. have you met them for you to judge???
      This girl i know, is very well behaved and from a good family in Kuwait, the way she dresses is really her personal business.
      I also met another kuwaiti girl (not in the picture) and she wears the hijab and very recpectful clothes, but you know what, she was really mean, rude, snob, and a really cheap Sl**.and was a fool that all the saudi guys in that city have.. well. ... u know.
      I do not see anything shamefull with the pictures u showed.
      Just a bunch of freinds who are probably enjoying a vacation or spring break.
      But i do agree that no matter where we go and wether we have fun or not, and no matter how we chose to dress, we must not forget God.. especially praying. ..and manage our time ... between fun and school... to much of either is not very healthy
      .



    • Dear Tornedos Daughter

      U r welcomed, and for ur information, the students are 100% ARABS and If I m not wrong are (Kuwaiti). U will be supprised, If I say that some Omani boys and Girls are worse .. worse ... worse than what u have seen in the PICS.

      Belive me, I was in London, Leeds, Manchister, Dublin, Syria, Kuwait, Lebanon ... etc. and sometimes I was so shy to say that I m Omani because of the students attitude there.

      Dear Mrs. Unfaithful

      Forgive me to say u r wrong.. totally wrong. If Allah told us how to dress in Quraan, If profit MOHD told us only the face and hands cant be covered... why should we choose wrong direction??

      This the problem in MUSLIMS these days,what they say "The important thing is that we r beliving in GOD". What EIMAN u r talking about?? EIMAN is not only words !!! EIMAN is following Quraan and SUNAH in every action in ur LIFE.

      Day by Day, ISLAM is leaving our Houses. Yesterday we all heared what SHEIKH Al-AZHAR (Tantawi) said, girls in FRANCE are forgiven to take off their HIJAB !!! How shame ??!! Look what we up to now, look at our IMAMS.


      Sister, go back to ur words... and go back to the holly Quraan and give me one AYAH that says girls can show their body (hair & arms)... go back to the Holly Quraan and give me one AYAH that says girls can mix with boys in vacations or what ever... and before that think before u sink.



      BEST WISHES
      SMART PRINCE

    • Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh my GOD ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
      My GOD are you talking seriously unfaithful ……what can I say ……….no more than what smart prince said and im grateful for him to be here …… what I said in my mind that I hope one of that girls or guys relative saw that picture to discover the truth about the person he or she know ……otherwise I feel that we have no right to show these pictures on line to not be scandal for them or for us as Arab …what I thank God for alhamd llah that girls not Omanies although I think if they are Omanies will not do better than them… really I fell sorry for them and sorry to heard such thing from unfaithful and im great sorry to say with my respect for unfaithful if you accept it for your friend and come here to defend what she done abroad you accept it for yourself if she is good and nice what the benefit if her moral from my point of view bad and more than bad….. Really you make me laugh from deep heart ……..

      Thanks Ms. Bomb for your present

      Tenderness I know why are you angry and you have the right to be angry after you saw that photos

      by the way Smart prince lucky that you have been to those countries …..and by the way I haven’t been abroad Im studying at SQU but I know someone who lives in UK and get this information from him and I heard it from many people …

      also SMART PRINCE i want to ask you how do you get these photos because really i hate that guy more than others because i feel he is Omani
      حبيت اقول بالعربي ل unfaithful
      حتى الفن ولا الاستمتاع له حدود ومهما لبسوا وما هما سوا دمهم بيظل عربي ...... اوين فن هذي مساخه وقلة ادب ما فن ....... ولكن كما بدا الاسللام غريبا سيعود غريبا
      be happy today you will cry on day we there is no benefit of your tears
      |t |t |t #h #h #h #h :eek: :eek:

    • كاتب الرسالة الأصلية Mrs.Unfaithful
      My goodness!!
      I am have studied abroad, and i know what you guys have talked about. As i was just about to write my opinion, i saw the pictures... my god!! I KNOW one of the girls in the pictures (by the way I am a girl not a guy!!)
      i know her well while we stayed in the same city. To let you know, that girl was one of the sweetest and nicest people i have met. I am sure many of you have cursed on the people in the pictures, but.. have you met them for you to judge???
      This girl i know, is very well behaved and from a good family in Kuwait, the way she dresses is really her personal business.
      I also met another kuwaiti girl (not in the picture) and she wears the hijab and very recpectful clothes, but you know what, she was really mean, rude, snob, and a really cheap Sl**.and was a fool that all the saudi guys in that city have.. well. ... u know.
      I do not see anything shamefull with the pictures u showed.
      Just a bunch of freinds who are probably enjoying a vacation or spring break.
      But i do agree that no matter where we go and wether we have fun or not, and no matter how we chose to dress, we must not forget God.. especially praying. ..and manage our time ... between fun and school... to much of either is not very healthy
      .




      Dear MRS unfaithful,

      At first I would like to welcome you here among us in English section. I was really surprised by your reply that you know one of the girls in the picture. You might be right when you said that we can’t judge the person from the picture just and we have to know him or her well. However, I don’t think it is something proper or normal as you said in your reply because they are a group of fiends enjoying their holiday. Girls can enjoy their holiday together without the guys. We are Muslims besides we are Arab who should keep our traditional. Also, we understand Islam more than other Muslims who don’t speak Arabic because Quran is written in Arabic.
      Can we really dress as that girls dress and then said that we are Muslims because we Know Allah and we pray, IS THAT ENOUGH?
      What I find it most shameful dear unfaithful the way the girls are sticking like superglue with the guy in picture three( SORRY FOR MY FRANK COMMENTS)
      And what about the last picture? Don’t you think it is a more than shameful picture?!!!

      I really feel sorry that we are the Muslim Arabs take the Islam as a cover now!!!
      Saying we are Muslims and we don’t follow Islam values and rules.
      And the Egyptian poet Mahmud Guhnim was absolutely right when he wrote in his poem ALNAJIM:
      ويح العروبة كان الكون مسرحها***فأصبحت تتوارى زواياة
      أنى أتجهت الى الاسلام في بلــــد*** تجده كالطير مقصوصا جناحاه

    • احللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللللى
      whisper i like that expression superglue ........you choose the right word ............im totally agree with you and i print my my hand and feett fingers............haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa......kaka
      thanks alot for stick thish topic like the superglue stick that girls among those guys ............. |e |e |e |e |e

    • It’s ok if we wear or act like the girls in the pictures…. It’s ok if we abandon our Islamic morals …..Why? because we are not in an Islamic country and we can do what ever we want ….and that won’t affect in our Islamic believes. Is that what you want to say Mrs.unfaithful?!.
      Dear sis come on and think about every single word u have wrote before…I mean you are saying things that non- Muslims want us to do it… don’t u get it ??They want to eradicate our entire Islamic morals and this is the new tactic to show the entire world that Muslims don’t follow their religion and so they are wrong in their religion.

      Even if she is a good person and she acts in such a shameful way, I don’t think that I will respect her…if she is one of my group I’ll show her the right way to go on… when I saw your words I was really shocked

    • Dear Tornedos Daughter

      Welcome sister .. and belive me, I m so grateful to write here. By the way, the PHOTOS were sent to me by an E-mail and I think the post was written in Ma7room Forums (EMARATI).

      Just I wanted to add some stories to this post:

      1. Last May I was in Syria, and exactly in HALAB. There are about 25 omani students (Boys & Girls) in HALAB UNIVERSITY. Their supervisor (Syrian) is my friend. He told me everything about them, I was really shocked .. The boys are only Drinking all night, SHEESHAH, and flirting with the girls. The girls are only searching for love relations, "ALMUSEEEBAH" not with Omanis. He showed me all their results, no body passes the first year, at least 4 modules failed in.

      2. One Omani Student (girl) in Jordan, was very bad .. and the university was afraid that she makes more problems, so they sent her to Oman. In Seeb Airport, she phoned one of her boy friends.. and he arranged for her a car to drive her to Dubai Airport, and from there she flew back to Jordan. But she was cought, and sent again to Oman and given to her parents Hand by Hand. Do u belive, before two years 19 Omani girls were sent back to Oman from Jordan.

      3. In UK(London), one girl spent her time with her friends(girls) house, until mid night. Then she went back and in the Ground Station, while waiting for the train, she saw one huge black guy. They were the only two there at that time. He kept stearing at her.. she was afraid, and started to read Quraan in her heart. After few mins, the guy went away without touching her. Next moorning, in the news papers, a girl was murdered in the same Station.. and the murder was the same black guy. The Omani Girl was shocked, and went to the police station and met the Murder. "Why didnt u kill me??", she said. "How can I kill u, if there were two white strong men beside u??!!!", he replied. Subhan Allah, she didnt forget her god, and God didnt forget her.. and sent two ANGELS to protect her..... SUBHAN ALLAH.



      Thats all for today.. and I m sorry, if talked too much.

      Best Wishes,
      Smart Prince

    • no more beyond

      ‎I strongly agree with Tenderness and Mrs. Unfaithful‎

      ‎As I understood from Mrs. Unfaithful these are personal pictures ‎
      ‎Somehow got into the net,
      seeing them in an email or another site,
      doesn’t make it right to be posted in Alsaha.‎

      ‎ There are real students‎
      ‎For heaven seek,
      I know we can’t stop their picture from spreading ‎‎All over the net,
      but at least what we can do is not allowing them in our forum.‎

      ‎I also strongly agree, that their dress is not right “Bad”‎
      ‎But I will not say any word beyond that, ‎
      ‎You can’t just assume things and start cursing people ‎
      ‎Based on your assumptions ‎
      ‎We all know that is “Harm” ‎

      ‎Beside who are we to judge them??‎

      ‎I do understand your feeling Tenderness ‎
      ‎Thank you Mrs. Unfaithful ‎

      ‎I hope the mistake of posting these pictures ‎
      ‎Will be dealt with wisely ‎
      ‎And rectified soon ‎

      ‎Thanks ‎

      ‎Nazlat ‎

    • thanks very much
      whisper
      i have nothing to add to what you have said ......im totaly agree with you with my hand and feet fingers print and my whole family hands and feet print
      SMART PRINCEthanks very much to give us this infortmation it is very useful to support my topic ........realy im glad to see you here .....
      WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAW ........waht i can say about that stories .........for the first two stories i put my hands on my head
      for the last one ...........i shaked to read such thing......
      GOD NEVER FORGET HIS GOOD PEOPLE AGAIN THOUSENDS OF THANKS

      NAZLAT im very happty to see you here after your disapper ......thanks alot for your post.........about the photos i said what you said
      what i realized that you havent read the posts carefully .......pleas read it again .......to be with us on the same line ......
      i will be more than happy to hear from you and you are more than welcome to give your opinion       |e |e |e :D :D

    • I am glad that the pictures have been removed.
      thanks to who ever did that
      why are you shocked from what i said??

      انسه قنبله..
      What do you mean i am saying what non-muslims want me to say?
      i havent been brain washed or anything
      I am just saying my personal oppinion
      ok let me try to explain my point to you backwards
      imagine a girl with hijab and abaya and everything and a bunch of girls who dont cover reject this girl BEFORE knowing her just because the way she dresses
      She might be fun smart and intelectual..
      but that didnt matter because they rejected her for the way she dresses
      Becasue its against what they believe is acceptable
      I am sure you would say that these girls are ignorant
      exactly.. and so is anyone else who rejects a person for his/her appearance

      A person has to be deeper than this nonsense, we live in a age of diversity that the world seems like one big city
      we have to learn to accept people the way they are
      If you dont accept them, then just let them be!!!
      We are not the Kings of the world to believe that we are right and everyone else is wrong

      what do you mean if that girl was in your group you will show her the "right" way?
      Just beacase you dont agree with her does not make her WRONG
      and just because you trust your beliefs that does not make you universally right
      We are relatively speaking here

      Islam is not a gangsters cult
      we do not chose who fits in and who does not
      Just because a girls doesnt cover, People dont have the right to say she does not belong to Islam

      And about girls mixing with guys, as dear Whisper says "like superglue"
      I dont agree or disagree
      but i believe is what deffrentiate humans from animals is that we can chose what type of relationship we want with the other gender


      o salamatkom,

    • بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
      السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

      الشكر الجزيل للاخ الفاضل tony1881
      Thank you all, and to be honest plus I was afraid a day will come and someone will intude my/our privacy at home, at our bedrooms and say, look what do the Omanis/khaleejes do
      اعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم

      I would like to thank Mrs. Unfaithful, and was glad to hear her point of view

      I would like to thank dear Nazlat, for his support to the idea, and nothing else

      I would like to thank all dear brothers and sisters, Whisper, Anesah Qunbola, Baron, tornedos daughter, Smart Prince and all others

      I guess the tiltle did not imply that we talk about negative things we do abroad but rather both negative and positive aspects

      Let us talk positive, and negative both in a respectful manner and remember that we are Omanis/Khaleejes/Human Beings

      Thank you all


      10derness

    • Hi again all and sorry for being late to response. It's Eid any way$$7.

      Well…well…well, look like I miss a lot of things in this topic during the last days but I'm back to continue with u brothers and sisters

      I'll start with a question Nazlat asked before
      "Who are we to judge them??‎"
      Brother we are no one to judge but some zealous Muslims who try to change this shameful reality of some Muslims who lost the right way that they should go on it. u may think that this discussion won't change any thing but let me tell u brother I'm sure that some who live in the same way might be reading this topic now and this may help him to discover what's wrong or miss in his life.

      Dear MRS unfaithful of course I didn’t mean that u have been brain washed or any thing from this stupid things" I'm sure" but I think that u live in an open society that such a thing is okay to u especially when u say "A person has to be deeper than this nonsense, we live in a age of diversity that the world seems like one big city"
      So u think that this thing is nonsense!! What can I say if this is nonsense... this strongly support my point. Dear sister what is the nonsense thing?? the shameful way they wear!! Is that what u mean?? You will say that this is not my business to say it's good or bad, or to judge them from the way they act but let me tell dear that when something related to my people... to my religion than this is enough reason to make this case my business and i strongly agree with u when u say that a person have to be deeper than this, deeper than just have fun in this life and this person have to think what he or she have when the judge day come instead of this nonsense thing as u say dear. Nonsense of acting in this way they are Muslims after all and they born Muslims. What is sin is sin and this fact never changes and it don't make Islam gangster cult. If these guys are non_Muslims than I'll excuse them because they don't know what the Quran says and what is in Quran never change too but they know all of thing and they act like that because we are in an age of diversity that the world seems like one big city…really deep thinking they have.. I really envy them of their free thinking.



      My regards

    • hi there everyone
      first of all, i would like to apologise for taking so long
      to be part of this discussion
      I would also, like to thank tornedos daughter, for posting this topic and everyone who took part in the discussion

      I just have one comment or rather remainder before getting into the discussion. As mentioned by Whisper, this post took a great turn away from its origin. It moved on to discuss what everyone think in certain photos. Each and everyone of us is entitled to have his own opinion and way of thinking in different aspects of our life. This is a fact that we all need to respect

      Now, i would really appreciate it, if we would all go back to discuss the main issue here and skip the discussion about those photos. I would think that most of you would agree that enough was said in that matter

      I'll be back as soon as i can! Till then, best wishes and regards


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    • السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
      Helllllllllllllllllllo everybody thanks a lot for being here and giving you opinion…but I have some objections …..
      If you do not mind UNFAITHFUL ……
      I ONLY WANT TO SAY
      الدين النصيحه
      I HAVE A STORY I would like to relate to you ……..when I were in first secondary grade……there was a girl who is non-Muslim in my class ….she was come from Gordon …for me it was surprise to see non-MUSLIM IN MY CLASS …..I can not imagine …after a few days I came close to her because I was the monitor in the class…one day I asked her why are you non-Muslim ...and you heard all that about Islam …….DO YOU KNOW WHAT SHE SAID ?????
      She answered me politely I came here for studying not to talk about my religion ……I respect her and I love her maybe more than before because I was looking to her by different sight …..DO YOU KNOW WHAT I HEARD ABOUT HER LATER ON?????
      I heard from one of her friends that she want to be MUSLIM but because of her family she can not ……..i feel sorry to heard such thing because if I love someone I want 'em be better than me ….In remember that day when I learned that we have the number of A'LLAH NAMES ON our hands and went to tell my classmates who have not know I shoed everyone accept her …..When she saw that there was argument in the class she came and asked me …..i told her ( that you have THE NUMBER OF ALLAH NAMES ON YOU HANDS ….I DON’T REMEMBER WHAT WAS HER REACT …..BUT WHAT IM SURE OF …….that she loves me more than before and she wishes every day if she was MUSLIM ……..
      WHAT I WANT TO SAY HERE
      I will not forget her as well as im on the earth face and she will do so….unfortunately there is no connection between us after I left that school i stayed there for two months but I saw her tears as she saw mine when I left them…
      She has not hated me because I believe in religion she not and me too but what I noticed that she likes ISLAM and respect our believe in …when we had Islamic class she wore ALHIJAB as we did …..i always remember her and want to know what happen for her …..THIS IS WHAT I UNDERSTOOD FROM MY RELIGION …..
      لا يؤمن احدكم حتى يحب لاخيه ما يحب لنفسه .......
      YES WE ARE NOT THE KINGS OF THIS WORLD but we are kings by what MOHAMMED has received to us …

      If one day comes and I travel abroad I will be proud to say ….IM MUSLIM …IM MUSLIM …IM MUSLIM …and I will not take off my hijab and if their do not want to accept me as im and nobody comes to be my friend …I know that ALLAH will be with me
      AS YOU SAID,''Just because a girls doesn't cover, People don't have the right to say she does not belong to Islam

      Ok I said she belong to Islam only in hers passport and ID'S cards but not in her heart …ISLAM mean …YOU HAVE TO DO ITS PRACTISE
      HOW MANY INDIANS HOUSE MAID SAID we are Muslim but do not wear scarf …I remember our former house maid who was CHRISTIAN Indian one when we she found some papers for other servants she said this maid does not wear scarf but they wrote in her passport that she is Muslim ..How it could be??????…I said they only write Muslim to get GOBS as we know …..
      Maybe one of you said all this not related to our subject but who is read carefully will find hidden messages beyond it …


      THANKS TENDERNESS…very much ……DO YOU WANT TO SAY THAT I INTRUDE IN YOUR PRIVECY???????
      THIS IS YOUR OPINION but if I said anything wrong it is not true …you have the right to say what is it and I will be glad to herd your defects ……what I said here not judge what ARAB do abroad is bad and there is nothing good im sure they do many many things which is good especially in RAMADAN TO KEEP THEIR UNIT AS MUSLIMS …I have here Omani saying I think its fit and this is my opinion …..
      اللي على راسه ريشه يتحسسها .... وكل واحد مني عارف نفسه I understood when you said,'' remember that we are Omanis/Khaleejes/Human Beings…that we do mistakes ….YES...YES we do mistakes but the clever one who does not continue the wrong way as well as he / she knows they are walking on the wrong direction…and im sure that EVERYBODY KNOW WHEN THEY ARE WALKING ON THE WRONG DIRECTION BECAUSE THERE IS SOMETHIN YELLING IN YOUR BODY AS YOU WALK FORWARD..
      I HAVE NOTHING TO ADD ….I feel there is sorrow in my heart I do not why???

      Thanks every body …….thanks The Master and I wish we heard something from you soon ….
      Thanks TONY1881 TO TAKE OF THAT PICTURE …
      Again thanks very much SMART PRINCE and do not be sad ….do not be far away …..
      Im sooooo sorry to write that much …………but im not sorry to say anything I meant in all my posts to this topic
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