a terouble problem i have??

    • a terouble problem i have??

      salam to everybody here and there....
      actually you may see that my problem is not as that much seriouse......but i feel it is so important because it is concerned with my future
      the problem is that i cant participate in classes, eventhough i know the answers....i feel that smething prevents me .....

      i would like u to help me and suggest solutions to overcome such a problem....

    • Dear asma
      Are you considered to be a shy person? I mean do your family or friends describe you as one? Do you talk to people around you? Do you like to be with others or just prefer to be alone

      Well, this problem is not yours only, and so many have it. Sometimes it is not a problem but one is not sure of the correct answer that makes him/her hesitate to answer untill it is late, too late and begins to blame him/herself

      Does your teacher prefer and favours others to you? and feel ignored

      I do not feel like going further as your clarification to some of the above questions could help me, help others and help you in defining the problem if there is a problem in the first place

      It could be easy to say oh well have self confidence and do not be shy .......etc

      Please give us more info in order to try to help if we can....NO, if I can

      All the best dear


      10derness

    • thank you "tenderness" ,but i am not ashy person.....i used to participate in classes and discuss and even argue....this problem has appeared this semester....by the way iam university student,so i cant see any discremination.....i am still asking myself why??

      you know yestarday we were discussing a poem....i had an argument but i cant realize why i didnt talk??



    • Hi I think your problem that you cant adapted to your new classmates , but believe me you will adapted to them by the time , its temporary problem Or you may feel uncomfortable with your new classmates ,

      If seeing that you are not a shy person , so what the problems ???

      You have to create your own solution that agree with your personality , try to think how to participate with your new classmate , and as you start thinking how to participate that this Is the first stage in order to go over this problem.


      Come on girl treat this problem as soon as possible

      Professional

    • Dear asma
      First of all I do apologize if I make my self sound like an expert, where is the truth I'm not

      You probably read dear Professional point of view that I liked, and ask you once more, Are you new to university life? to the new atmosphere? Did you feel that you were unread and unread during your previous activities, in other words do you feel disappointed that people at uni are different and not the same as used to be at school

      Well, again let us hear from you and others, we need to learn....I need to learn

      All the luck


      10derness

    • I don't know what to add after the reply of professional because what i want to say he has already say it..

      Maybe because you feel that you are strange in the class and don't have the same faces you are accustomed with them..However, there is something will help you to go over this..
      First, try to make friendship with your new classmates, secondly, try to prepare well for your lessons specially poems need a lot of preparing for them.. I believe if you did so, that will enhance your confident and create a strong power inside your self that encourage you to participate as you did in the past.$$e

      Good Luck to you in your studies#d

    • In addition to what my brothers said, I think that you are suffering from that problem MAY BE because you don't have a purpose for your participation!
      Let me give more clarifications, some students participate only to show their teacher that they are participating, some participate to show other students that they are clever and good, some participate because they like to share others their opinions, …etc.
      To which category do you belong?
      I wish to know that you are in the 3rd group because then you will always participate without being hesitate!

      Good luck dear sister.

    • helllllllllllllllo asma
      asma ................try to find out what is your problem im sure .....there is something in your mind makes you be away although your body in the class .........you have to study yourself try to understand what's going on .......try to talk to yourself and ask her what is wrong with you ........you have making a promise between you and yourself .........that nothing can abstract you in the class ..........and you will raise your hand to answer any questions you know the answer for .............im sure you are good student ............so do not let such things overwhlem yoou ........
      always remind yourself that you can do it .......you can do it
      so you will do it ..........for your sake
      and for my sake ..............
      |e |e |e $$e $$e $$e

    • كاتب الرسالة الأصلية Tenderness
      [B]Dear Mona Al-Maskari
      Thank you very much for your participation that I consider directed to us all and not to our dear asma alone. You have opened alongside dear Professional a new direction to the discussion

      I'm pleased to hear from you and Professional and eager to hear more from you

      Thank you dear


      10derness
      [/B]


      You are most welcome!
      Thank you very much for your activeness.

      Best regards,
      Mona

    • today i am very happy......i feel that my problem has gone......listen what happened and give me your comments

      today i went to the class late alittlebit ....so i didnt find a seat except at back whearse i used to sit at front......i felt that i was so relaxed....i began to talk and discuss and give my arguments.....i was thinking"oh i am particepating...great....go ahead"...at that time i recalled you...actually i thank you alot....but i have a question....is changing my seat the reason beyond my partecipation??or there is something else
      by the way .all my classmates are familiar to me......

      now iam inviting you to attend ....indeed you will enjoy poetry....you should have a visit....moreover the doctor is very nice

    • Dum

      You wanna feel great and brave to raise that hand of you in front of your collegues....try my approach...Youu have to believe inside yourself that every one in your class is just as shy as you or is just as hesitated as you are. You have also to believe the teacher him/herself does know little...they only ask questions and never know the right answer....

    • Dear asma
      I'm glad, we are all glad you managed to get over your problem, and back to asma the active, motivated and brave

      The only thing I can think of concerning the seat change, and I'm talking here as a moderator...what a moderator...super moderator......hahahahaha, I'm only Tenderness and this my nick for sure, your bother and friend, all of you, and I honestly feeling thta we are one family, and wish this family to get bigger and begger....say Inshallah

      What I'm talking about....I jave no idea....lol

      back to asma and the seat, I guess from this position and seat you would be able to see every body around you and notice every movement so no one dares to foul you...you feel you have control

      I talked to the rest of my big family and all decided to attend your graduation ceremony soon Inshallah asma

      Take care dear and good luck


      Brother
      10derness

    • Dear The Ghost
      Happy to see you around, but upset at the same time you leave your family here for quite long time, please do not do it again, we all need you

      Thank you for your comments and participation and to tell you the truth I was thinking of a topic related to what you have stated but thought to wait a little untill the right time comes

      Your commets prove to correct and I put it something like when we are scared from a mouse and the mouse is frightened by us...we do not know who escapes from who

      Yes, we should all understand you point and I will stop here as not to ruin my idea for my next topic

      Nice to see you back The Ghost


      Brother
      10derness

      hahahaha, honestly I was about to put my real name....this is the kind of feeling I have towards you all

    • h h h hhh hhh
      هيه هيه هيه
      اليوم عيد ........الكل سعيد ...............احبابنا اليوم ......زاليوم عيد
      اصحابنا الكل سعيد .........
      oh my God i forget myself
      im mean
      well done ....well done ...my friend
      you did it .....you did it
      i was sure that you will do it ...........
      today you raise your hand .........tomorrow you will be the one who ask others to raise their hands
      ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh im so happy
      i want a gift























      please invite me to banana juice ( rani)

      |e |e |e |e |e

    • My favorite seat,
      Yeah, I always like the back row..There is a strong relation between me and the back row and it lets me feel safe and comfortable. However, what I like mostly, that I can see all the class from the back row and I can see the expressions of each student in the class.. besides that, I could focus clearly..

      So, Asma you invited us to poetry class.. I like poetry so much and I am so excited to attend the class with you and see your good teacher of poetry..

      I am so happy to see you back to your real active character. I hope you will be always like that and don't forget us at all whenever you need any help.

    • asma i do not think the secrate is the seat but i think the sectare inside you ...in your soul ...your heart ........asma i didnt see anything from you ..................
      :sad :sad :sad :sad :sad where is my banana juice ......
      i will tell your mother if you do not invite me ............and i will tell Dr ROSCO
      to not let you attend the class unless you buy that juice
      go on my best freind |e |e |e |e |e

    • as usual am late as ever$$t ! However, am actually happy to have made it at last and to see that asma has overcome her problem. Most of us face that sort of problem and hopefully one day we'll over come it like asma

      Anyway, as for changing the seat being the reason for you overcoming the problem, i think i would have to agree with tornadoe's daughter! Was it really the seat or was it something else! You may never get to actually figure that out. Obviously, changing the seat gave you a new prospective of the class and to some extent became a driving force for you to overcome your problem. This is really great because you actually managed to make use of an incidence for your own benefit

      I think that, it is you who actually, drove your own self to over come the problem, regardless of the circumstances;) Sometimes it takes minor changes for us to have enough confidance in our own capabilities. So, Well done

      |e |e

    • salaaaam

      thank you ternadous daughter for your effective participate in my problem......but how greedy you are,how many times i donate for you and you you still demand.....

      to THE MASTER.....i appreciate your interfare even it is late.....it is agreat hounor to hear your view of point.....i agree with you and ternadous daughter,changing the seat is not behind the solution......thank god that now i am better although i return to my front seat......

    • asma im greedy let me see your face on Saturday ......
      do you remember when was the jast time you invite me .......
      however you invite me ..many times ....and im sure i did the same ...
      this one is special one ..........and do not forget ....you raised you hand for the first time ..........in my presentaion ..........
      EVERBODY what do you think .............does not she have to invite me ...............
      asma ..................if you ....if you do not do it..............
      i will tell ............THE MASTER
      .............the master tell her
      to buy me that juice |t |t |t :eek: :eek: :eek: