Does being responsible contradict with being religious??

    • WS

      i think poeple who are having this sort of problem and they feel that they cany take responsibility

      they should watch themself and try to learn and go out with other poeple

      of course there are so many ways to solve the problem i will let others to give thier ideas

    • Dr.SHAIKHA كتب:

      SALAM,
      THAT IS AN IMPORTANT AND INTERESTING ISSUE TO TALK ABOUT
      AND YOU ARE RIGHT IN WHAT YOU SAID,BUT WHAT CAN BE DONE ABOUT IT????????? ~!@q THAT IS THE QUSTION.


      hala Dr Shaikha, what do you think can be done about it?? I think those people has to be told when the situation arise that this is not about just worshipping but also doing the normal daily life activities is part of this worship. Many of this sort of people do not listen, but with a nice way and elkelmah el6aybah, hopefully we can make them understand..

      appreciate your comment and welcome as a new member

    • Honest كتب:

      WS

      i think poeple who are having this sort of problem and they feel that they cany take responsibility

      they should watch themself and try to learn and go out with other poeple

      of course there are so many ways to solve the problem i will let others to give thier ideas


      Yeah I think you are right Honest, they better watch themselves because if they become a parent they will eventually pass on that sort of thinking or way of doing things to thier kids and so they will miss the really meaning of why they are doing such thing.. forgetting about being responsible and spreading such behavior is somewhat dangerous in terms of thinking and its impact on society

      You may give us something as a solution and perhaps we might find a way, so far the only thing I do is just go and talk to them in a nice way and explain to them why I think they not doing something in the right way, and this way makes it easier for me to make myself direct and clear and just leave it up to them to deal with it once they recognize the problem. I dont want to tell them what to do, instead I will tell them what I think and then they have to figure out what they should do about it, as a first step to be responsible to help themselves

      thanks for your comments

    • eL3aJoOoZ_NaWaR كتب:

      For so many years, I met so many people who are so nice, religious, so good at this and that, but when it comes to responsibility, they totally forget that they have to do their own work and they go to continue their worship activities leaving loads of work to be done by others.

      Why people spend hours on worshipping when they know they have also other commitements, they have kids to look after, they have studies to do, they have to keep the house clean and not just sit 24/7, especially in Ramadan, and worship Allah. Doing our own activities also is part of worshipping him, so why they think that doing these normal stuff would contradict with their worship? They are not losing any rewards when they don't. First comes first, do what you are required to do for the benefit or your life and you will always find the time to worship Allah, but do not leave your mess for someone else to do it and that person gets all the blame if he/she couldn't do it correctly.

      What's the problems with those boys and girls being so irresponsible?? Is it because they are used to have people to do things for them? Are they so filthy-rich not to do anything? We all lived a beautiful life, we all had housemades to do our cleaning and had parents to do all our things we needed to do, but have some responsibility for your own things and do them yourself. Dont wait to find someone to do it for you and if there is someone today, you are going to be alone one day, so learn how to be responsible before it's too late!!!i




      Hi brothers

      I know that I am too late but it is better than never


      I want to say that even when we do our work we do worship Allah
      As u know that work is part of our worshipping
      So those people who don’t do their works I think they haven’t understood Islam

      I am coming back soon Inshaa Allah

    • ANGELS_EYES كتب:

      Hi brothers

      I know that I am too late but it is better than never


      I want to say that even when we do our work we do worship Allah
      As u know that work is part of our worshipping
      So those people who don’t do their works I think they haven’t understood Islam

      I am coming back soon Inshaa Allah


      Take all your time and we are not rushing here at all.. and yeah it's about understanding the real concepts in Islam.. thanks